Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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FFS Regulus, No1..

Drop No2 like it's hot, she's still in a relationship and wants to "test the water before jumping ship. **** that! Seriously low thing to do.
 
I know, I know. Hence the fact that it's so *******ly irritating that this girl tickles my interest. You could never trust a girl like that either. I guess us guys like the bad girls just as much as the ladies like the bad boys sometimes.

I know what to do. Perhaps just needed to hear it from one or two of you.
 
Had another rather brilliant night the other night with my new woman..
She cooked me dinner at her place and part of the evening we spent led on her kids trampoline star gazing, but then it rained...

But it was nice cooling rain (we were so hot :D) so we just led there in the rain getting soaked. :D:D
 
Fuzz said:
Had another rather brilliant night the other night with my new woman..
She cooked me dinner at her place and part of the evening we spent led on her kids trampoline star gazing, but then it rained...

But it was nice cooling rain (we were so hot :D) so we just led there in the rain getting soaked. :D:D
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Very romantic :)

Is this the one that's a bit older than you?
 
Ahleckz said:
I'm back with my ex. I had some fun, and it's nice knowing that I can have girls fighting for me. However, my girlfriend knows me and I know her. She's something special.
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Then why did you break up in the first place!
Never understand this.
 
regulus said:
Why are we never satisfied with what we have? Hear me out.

So I've whittled down my dating to two girls now. Got sick of dating anything and everything.

Girl 1. Swedish, beautiful. Good heart, lovely personality, good job and pays her way on every date despite my protests. We get on great, I've met some of her friends and her sisters and we all got on fantastically. Got inordinately drunk on Saturday during Midsummer and she dragged me back to her cave afterwards (take that literal and figuratively). Saw her twice this week and her sister tells me she talks about me all the time and really likes me. She's always really excited to see me and sad to see me go without being clingy at all. So, strong possibility of taking things all the way with her. But,

Enter girl 2.

Finnish, tall (very very tall, as in 6'1, I'm touching 6'3 but she wears heels), stunning, super smart, her personality almost mirrors mine, her humour is dark like mine, we both love the same things .... but she's in the last throws of a long distance relationship. So technically, still attached. Think I mentioned it here. Now she offered me a NSA relationship until it's officially over, but somehow I think I want a bit more as we get on so well. I've been very careful not letting that on and spend most of our dates insulting and teasing her. In a friendly comfortable way. Emotionally she seems to be confused. She talks about her 'boyfriend' but that it will be over soon. 10% of my mind tells me she is blatantly cheating, the other 90% wants to believe her.

I want to slap myself. Here I have a gorgeous girl (Swede) wanting to be with me, but I want the dark horse where there may or may not be a future.

Why are we so stupid sometimes?
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No.1 for sure.

No.2, ALREADY cheating, and you're considering a relationship with her, what's to say she won't do it to you also? Come on son... :p
 
regulus said:
Why are we never satisfied with what we have? Hear me out.

So I've whittled down my dating to two girls now. Got sick of dating anything and everything.

Girl 1. Swedish, beautiful. Good heart, lovely personality, good job and pays her way on every date despite my protests. We get on great, I've met some of her friends and her sisters and we all got on fantastically. Got inordinately drunk on Saturday during Midsummer and she dragged me back to her cave afterwards (take that literal and figuratively). Saw her twice this week and her sister tells me she talks about me all the time and really likes me. She's always really excited to see me and sad to see me go without being clingy at all. So, strong possibility of taking things all the way with her. But,

Enter girl 2.

Finnish, tall (very very tall, as in 6'1, I'm touching 6'3 but she wears heels), stunning, super smart, her personality almost mirrors mine, her humour is dark like mine, we both love the same things .... but she's in the last throws of a long distance relationship. So technically, still attached. Think I mentioned it here. Now she offered me a NSA relationship until it's officially over, but somehow I think I want a bit more as we get on so well. I've been very careful not letting that on and spend most of our dates insulting and teasing her. In a friendly comfortable way. Emotionally she seems to be confused. She talks about her 'boyfriend' but that it will be over soon. 10% of my mind tells me she is blatantly cheating, the other 90% wants to believe her.
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Going against the grain, but number 2. You obviously want her more than 1 (even if it's wanting something you can't have), otherwise you wouldn't be in this situation, you'd just be with her and it would be nice and simple.
 
Damnations Fury said:
Going against the grain, but number 2. You obviously want her more than 1 (even if it's wanting something you can't have), otherwise you wouldn't be in this situation, you'd just be with her and it would be nice and simple.
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What you want isn't always what's best for you.
 
Damn you lot are always correct :eek:

I got one final date with her on Sunday where I'm going to work her out of my system for good. :p

Swedo it is then after that. Settling and all that.
 
krooton said:
What you want isn't always what's best for you.
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I agree entirely, but if he is having to ask the question in this case, when the obvious best decision to go for number 1 is so blindingly obvious that i'm not sure why there's the question , I get the impression he will always have his doubts about if he made the correct decision going for 1.
 
regulus said:
Damn you lot are always correct :eek:

I got one final date with her on Sunday where I'm going to work her out of my system for good. :p

Swedo it is then after that. Settling and all that.
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Argh, you're not getting it are you.

Forget No2, not go on a bloody date with her Sunday. How do you think No1 will feel about this?
 
Fuzz said:
Yup the 44 year old, blind sided by that one I tell you.
Never in a million years would have chosen an older woman than myself with three young kids on top of that.
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How old you by the way? Just wandering cos im 24 and never had a thing for milf's, but that's started to change a bit!
 
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