Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!
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A month?!
Probably because someone messaged them after your first, then asked them out rather than chatted endlessly on the internet!
Choice between the guy they have seen a few times and a random they haven't met yet...?
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i tried to meet up but they kept making excuses last minute.
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Surely the point is that you're out to meet new people that you think you would click with; you don't necessarily have to fancy them from the outset, but you may find that as you get to know them better you could end up with either a great new friend or something more? Not saying chase the fog beasts, but perhaps give people a chance, even if they don't look like Cameron Diaz...
Maybe I was doing it all wrong!
I really do despair.Had a gf once who decided to give up work because she thought I wouldn't mind providing for her. I didn't mind for a while but then she decided to use the spare time to go bang someone else while I was at work. Proof that some women are never happy. :/
You should never ever ever ever ever give up something for someone else. It never works out when people do this. It's a controlling mechanism for people. They know they can twist people around their little finger so they do it.
I just don't understand what people are looking for, one min they want one thing the next it's another. Unless you can keep them happy it doesn't matter what you do or who you are rich or poor or a drug abuser, fat or slim, tall or small.
I don't think anyone should listen to someone else on how to do your profile either...... do it yourself and be yourself.
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Doesn't matter what you write in your profile because if the woman doesn't fancy you from the pics she won't even bother reading your profile. Had plenty of timewasters, I get the odd message but I can't be bothered to reply as it's the same old **** messages and the same **** conversations time and time again.
so you cant be bothered to get to know people? wooho.. ?!
I've been through it all about 20 times and I'm just bored of it TBH, just taking a break from it. Had so many time wasters and idiots and I've been left a bit jaded by the whole experience.
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so which sites do people have the most success, and what areas of the country has the highest success rate on here?
Got text just now about possibility of the relationship going into the unknown and she's scared of getting hurt again.. "what if I turn out to be the wrong person for her down the line" etc. she says she can't take that chance and we need to "not see each other for a while"
Err well who are you waiting for to tell you whether its the right road or not? Your God isn't going to give you the answers you so desperately want him to answer.
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Strange, strange women
Err well who are you waiting for to tell you whether its the right road or not? Your God isn't going to give you the answers you so desperately want him to answer.
/rant
Strange, strange women
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so you cant be bothered to get to know people? wooho.. ?!
He's right. All the sweet talk in the world along with wonderful personalities and all that good stuff will make zero difference if you look like Frankenstein.
Attraction first > All
That the 44 year old?
Match. Had fantastic success with Match.
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She sounds like a crazy.
FTFY.
BTW, when I was on OKC, a HUGE proportion of the girls on there seemed to be bisexual. Is there something I'm missing here?
Hand on heart I can say that I've dated only one girl from Match that HAVEN'T slept with another girl. Seems to be an 'in' thing, like us boys shaving .... down there.
As a follow-up to my epic (fail) thread of yonks ago, here is my new POF profile
The previous one was too negative, OcUKers said. So how about some criticism of my new one?
The previous one was too negative, OcUKers said. So how about some criticism of my new one?
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more pictures 
why tell people you never had a gf? 32 years old and no gf is very odd and might put a lot off even thought you might be a perfect person for them so take that out.. then again i find all of your profile to depressing as if you're crying out for someone who would help you?!
i dunno man you need to take half of the description off and be a bit more "in gear" to actually show people that you want to go and do stuff now you sound like a lonely boring 32 year old who never had gf.. which is really not a good first impression put in your hobbies, let people know what you like to do etc tell them your good sides and when it comes to socializing just PUSH your self forward talk and stop thinking about it
just my opinion.
why tell people you never had a gf? 32 years old and no gf is very odd and might put a lot off even thought you might be a perfect person for them so take that out.. then again i find all of your profile to depressing as if you're crying out for someone who would help you?!i dunno man you need to take half of the description off and be a bit more "in gear" to actually show people that you want to go and do stuff now you sound like a lonely boring 32 year old who never had gf.. which is really not a good first impression
put in your hobbies, let people know what you like to do etc tell them your good sides and when it comes to socializing just PUSH your self forward talk and stop thinking about itjust my opinion.
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