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admittedly its hard to know if I would message 99% of the people on there as their profiles are all similar to the 2 examples. no real personality in them so hard to know if I would like the person face to face, so can only really go on pics and hope for the best, which to me seems a bit shallow.
Just message the ones you find interesting? Whats the worst that can happen? No reply? Boho big deal
