Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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Nah, think about it from that guy's point of view... he probably sends these messages to 10-20 girls not expecting many replies. If you reply and it goes somewhere, it's a bonus. If not, well he's only sent a free whatsapp message init. Not much invested there, not like he's bought you flowers!

Perfectly safe to ignore imo... (although he could be an obsessive stalker, let's not rule it out :p)
 
chanjy said:
Nah, think about it from that guy's point of view... he probably sends these messages to 10-20 girls not expecting many replies. If you reply and it goes somewhere, it's a bonus. If not, well he's only sent a free whatsapp message init. Not much invested there, not like he's bought you flowers!

Perfectly safe to ignore imo... (although he could be an obsessive stalker, let's not rule it out :p)
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Seriously ? Nah he seems like a nutter to me. If i don't get a reply from 2 texts in a row then its in the bin she goes, number deleted, on to the next one. This feller has sent best part of a dozen messages over the space months. If a woman was like that to me i'd be blocking her number.
 
MisChief said:
I've made it clear to him before. We've not even been on a date yet!! He was so keen to meet me and kept joking about marriage and me being his housewife etc so it kind of put me off a little. I said to him that I want nothing more than friends and he said he understands etc but want to meet anyway as he thinks I'm a great person from all the chats we've had. :o
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block him. done.
 
.Lethal said:
So a girl doesn't contact you, Unless its a reply to something you've said.

Yeah I'm really wondering if she "likes" you too.

Either take it for how obvious it seems, or take things further and ask her if she thinks things are going anywhere further than friendship.

Personally, I'd assume she just wants to be friends and go with that.
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I sent her a message asking if ive been put in the friendzone or not, so i guess ill wait to see what she says.
Funny enough i signed up to POF lastnight, not to try and setmyself up with someone. I just wanted to look at woman who applyed in my area see if i know them.
I havent got a pic up yet but i got one "desperate" message from a fogbeast.
 
bakes0310 said:
Mischief if i was that guy i would want you to tell me straight that your not interested. If you read my post on this page, i think i might be going through pretty much the same thing. Where i dont know where i stand with this girl, you couldnt read what i wrote and see what you think.
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I think anyone with a tiny bit of sense can see that if you don't get a reply to numerous messages over a period of months, you're going nowhere.
 
Janesy B said:
I think anyone with a tiny bit of sense can see that if you don't get a reply to numerous messages over a period of months, you're going nowhere.
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well if im honest if this was happening to someone else i would write the same reply as you. But as this is my first time dating, my normal senses have gone out the window.
 
bakes0310 said:
well if im honest if this was happening to someone else i would write the same reply as you. But as this is my first time dating, my normal senses have gone out the window.
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I think I took your post out of context when replying to it. Unfortunately you'll find that most convention goes out of the window with online dating and you'll just be treated like a piece of online meat.
 
bakes0310 said:
yep were just friends, just got the reply:p
Im not upset or bothered, i sorta knew. But good news were still friends so i can still have a laugh with her at work.
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Without wanting to be THAT guy, she wants to be friends because she lacks the *balls* to tell you to go away - don't be upset if contact fizzles out :p
 
Janesy B said:
Without wanting to be THAT guy, she wants to be friends because she lacks the *balls* to tell you to go away - don't be upset if contact fizzles out :p
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I was kinda being sarcastic, but she aint a nasty person we can still say hello and work together like normal. We only been out twice so its not like we had any feelings towards each other.
 
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