Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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We went to some coffee shop on Saturday, its a bit different tho, you can choose to either decopatch or paint pottery, i made her this little owl and she made a picture frame, it was pretty good activity actually, not the normal you know. Still ive got no idea where we are going with this whole thing. Its starting to get a bit frustrating, but maybe thats me being stupid and looking for to much too soon
 
I've done internet dating once.

Met her at the airport.

This was her picture on her profile.

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When I got to meat her, she looked a bit different, picture from ambulance door after I fainted.


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Some things cannot be unseen
 
There is a guy somewhere sat in his evil lair, stroking a white cat, proclaiming:
"Oh yes, she WILL be mine! Ahahahaha!"

:p
O dear, I just pictured one of the guys doing that :eek: :D

Still ive got no idea where we are going with this whole thing. Its starting to get a bit frustrating, but maybe thats me being stupid and looking for to much too soon
Maybe she's waiting for you to take action?
 
O dear, I just pictured one of the guys doing that :eek: :D

Maybe she's waiting for you to take action?

Thats what i thought, but when ever i ramp it up, it doesnt seem to totally come off, thinking about going super direct next time i see her but im not really sure how to word it
 
haha maybe wrong choice of words, i mean like general touching, arm around shoulder, trying for more than a kiss etc. Maybe i need to tell her just how much i like her? i mean she must know i do because i got her a valentines day card lol, perhaps shes as useless as me and needs in in black and white
 
haha maybe wrong choice of words, i mean like general touching, arm around shoulder, trying for more than a kiss etc. Maybe i need to tell her just how much i like her? i mean she must know i do because i got her a valentines day card lol, perhaps shes as useless as me and needs in in black and white
Yes, just tell her! You've been on lots of dates with her now no? Hang around any longer and she might just get swept away by another guy!
 
This is what im worried about, although what makes me wonder is the fact that ive done everything to make it clear, passed pretty much all the little tests, apart from she does get mad i dont eat as much as her, but imo ive made it pretty much as crystal clear as you can get it. Which then makes me think why do i need to say anything? but as ive done everything else i guess maybe i do need to tell her straight up, look here women, im feeling you. :D
 
Yea' in the past when I've been on dating sites I always hate it when you get the ones that just want to talk on the phone. I like text and I like e-mails... gtfo with your calling ****.

Yes I am single lol :D
 
This is what im worried about, although what makes me wonder is the fact that ive done everything to make it clear, passed pretty much all the little tests, apart from she does get mad i dont eat as much as her, but imo ive made it pretty much as crystal clear as you can get it. Which then makes me think why do i need to say anything? but as ive done everything else i guess maybe i do need to tell her straight up, look here women, im feeling you. :D

Don't tell her you like her, just show her you like her, at the end of the next date or whatever, just kiss her? You'll find out pretty quickly if she likes you or not then if she kisses you back.
 
This is what im worried about, although what makes me wonder is the fact that ive done everything to make it clear, passed pretty much all the little tests, apart from she does get mad i dont eat as much as her, but imo ive made it pretty much as crystal clear as you can get it. Which then makes me think why do i need to say anything? but as ive done everything else i guess maybe i do need to tell her straight up, look here women, im feeling you. :D

Sounds like there's nothing to lose if you've tried everything else! Apparently women like a confident man, so just do what you've got to do :)
 
I always go for the kiss at the end of the date, thats what i mean it all seems so obvious, well to me anyway lol, maybe ill get the Bat signal out and broadcast it in the skies
 
I always go for the kiss at the end of the date, thats what i mean it all seems so obvious, well to me anyway lol, maybe ill get the Bat signal out and broadcast it in the skies

So why not invite her back to yours or something, just show her that you'd like to take things further, sounds like you've been dating for a while now.
 
I recommend going for the kiss after the first date if you get on.

I must admit not a great deal has happened from the online dating side, a few girls have given me ratings on Ok Cupid but my messages have remained unanswered however, I did get introduced to a girl a couple of weekends ago through a mutual friend and we have had two dates so far and I went for the kiss both times and she reciprocated :)

Seems to be going okay so far, online dating hasn't worked for me this time but never mind!
 
Just as I was gearing up to do online seriously by getting new photos etc turns out real life beats me to it. I wasn't getting half the responses or activity on Match.com as other people I know and I'd like to think I'm not totally hideous too... But anyhow, met someone in real life and that seems to have some potential.

@Kimi- just tell her. Out with it. Even if the pit of your stomach is churning with awkwardness. I recommend it as I had this situation (which was actually what the other person was going through too) and it has prevented a missed opportunity.
 
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