Got a date tonight - was really looking forward it earlier in the week as she seems so nice. Now it's due I just can't be bothered, anyone else get like that? Maybe it's the heat
Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!
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Got a date tonight - was really looking forward it earlier in the week as she seems so nice. Now it's due I just can't be bothered, anyone else get like that? Maybe it's the heat
Soldato
still no dates for me 
, back in the real world a new lady started working here in my office who seem quite nice and we get on. Im might ask her out for a drink or something (she not a girly girl, thank god) Considering the ratio of ladies to men in a game development office Im sure im not the only one with this plan.
I better be quick as dates have sliped though my fingers as I've left it to long to ask them as a result I have a small louthing for one of the designers lol
, back in the real world a new lady started working here in my office who seem quite nice and we get on. Im might ask her out for a drink or something (she not a girly girl, thank god) Considering the ratio of ladies to men in a game development office Im sure im not the only one with this plan. I better be quick as dates have sliped though my fingers as I've left it to long to ask them as a result I have a small louthing for one of the designers lol
Look on the bright side you might get to have sex in a field... with a man called steve...
been on POF for about a month or so no luck at the moment. I have sent many people messages some creative and different in regards to the information on the persons account some i couldn't be asked and just wrote "hello miss" or something along them lines.
I was talking to a nice lass 13/14 messages passed either side i gave her my number and told her it be better to get through on mobile asked her give me a call or drop a text sometime left it at that have not replied to her (on POF as i dont have her num she has mine) and have not got anything through on my phone so that ended up dead end me thinks.
what am i doing wrong?.. Bro's lend me your opening lines...
other than that had a few people check my account page but no replies... i aint got a bad mug on me either.
I was talking to a nice lass 13/14 messages passed either side i gave her my number and told her it be better to get through on mobile asked her give me a call or drop a text sometime left it at that have not replied to her (on POF as i dont have her num she has mine) and have not got anything through on my phone so that ended up dead end me thinks.
what am i doing wrong?.. Bro's lend me your opening lines...
other than that had a few people check my account page but no replies... i aint got a bad mug on me either.
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You can't second guess what women are doing on POF/ouside of POF so getting worried about sending messages and not getting them back is always a bad idea. Just send more and hopefully someone will take an interest/isn't being odd about pof.
Also giving numbers out is a weird one, usually only do it as part of the meeting up experience, never try and get a number before then as it usually doesn't work (as I assume you have found out).
There's loads of weird psychological steps going from online chatting to being part of her real life and it is always different from person to person. Some are really comfortable with facebook early (I'm not that never works), some hand out phone numbers willy nilly (not too common) and some are petrified of doing it after a date (aka don't date again too weird). I would personally target organising a date before any phone numbers, facebook and things like that and see how it goes.
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I'm alive. With all my organs intact.
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see i'd go for number before dates so that you can text for a couple days and then plan to meet up and if you need to change things etc then you have the number to say where are you i'm standing at the wrong nandos etc.
Right next novelty online dating step, had 5 different dates over week or so a couple of weeks ago which was all new to me, 3 of them have turned io sort of seeing each other things, can't deal with 3!!! One is being whittled out because she's taken ages to become keen and I can't imagine sleeping with her. The over excited ginger is the one to go for but how do I let down the blond girl who's really nice but can't kiss?!
Never had to do this and not really sure how to say you're nice but she's better... (Time to feel like a hopeless man child)
Yeah I always think the phone number is for on the way to the date, so having one arranged to start with is a good way to get it/get texting to become normal...
Hurray! Was she really a man?! Or did she just want babies in the hills?? Or was she normal enough to maybe have a second date
Never had to do this and not really sure how to say you're nice but she's better... (Time to feel like a hopeless man child)
Yeah I always think the phone number is for on the way to the date, so having one arranged to start with is a good way to get it/get texting to become normal...
Hurray! Was she really a man?! Or did she just want babies in the hills?? Or was she normal enough to maybe have a second date
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how did it go?
Soldato
Haha. No I didn't end up having sex with a Steve in a field. She was pretty normal! Really cool, funny and very interesting. We have a lot more in common than I realised before. Wandered about, had a couple of drinks, I'd like to think that a 7 hour lunch date with no awkwardness is a good sign! I fudged up a bit at the end with a slightly feeble goodbye kiss, but in my defence we were in the street standing next to a large family, plus I was a bit nervous as to how far to go, haha (pathetic). Afterwards she texted me saying she was looking forward to the second date, which is also a good sign, right??
But the main thing that will interest you guys is- she was genuinely very hot. And she has a dirty, dirty mind...
Soldato
Haha, what's the over excited ginger one like? And what do you mean the blond girl can't kiss? Does she make up for it in other areas at least? Just tell them you don't feel it's going anywhere, there's no easy way to make it any softer, you'll just end up sounding ambiguous and sending mixed signals which could drag on...
Classic online dating experience last night, she seemed lovely with the texting etc, just my type.
She turned out to be at least 2 stones heavier in reality than her pictures suggested.
Gutted. Oh well. Sent her a nice text saying I wasn't the one for her, and moving on.
She turned out to be at least 2 stones heavier in reality than her pictures suggested.
Gutted. Oh well. Sent her a nice text saying I wasn't the one for her, and moving on.
But the main thing that will interest you guys is- she was genuinely very hot. And she has a dirty, dirty mind...
Bast'.
Soldato
I know. At first I was like
, by the end of the day I was like 
Nothing happened, but it bodes well! (I'm still a little bit scared...)
I know. At first I was like
Nothing happened, but it bodes well! (I'm still a little bit scared...)
Give it a month, you'll be back here telling us she actually has finally stolen an organ... as she bit it off.
Hot/cray scale, yo. Maybe you lucked out and she's just a post-op. /shrug
Soldato
Funny you should say that. A few days ago I did wonder about my luck/too good to be true sort of thing, and most of her friends are gay guys, most of whom appear to enjoy cross dressing, going by her Facebook photos. I was worried, I'll be honest. I thought I was going to end up having a sausage for lunch whether I wanted to or not. Then I watched the episode of An Idiot Abroad where Karl goes to Thailand and meets some ladyboys. That didn't help.
But she has a 3 year old kid. And I went through her pictures (giggedy) and pretty sure she's not a he. (I can tell from the pixels). Also on the day I did the obligatory hand size check, brow, voice etc etc. She's definitely a she. Phew.
Hot scale would be 8/10 for me, at least. Crazy scale yet to find out. I might need to extend that axis...
Sounds very sensible, think I need to go man up (not an euphemism) and sort this out really...
Over excited ginger is quality, really nice, friendly, fit and her only negative point is being a vegan (but isn't an arse about it so its not a bad thing really). Blond girl is an all action kisser, ie its a bit like a washing machine, not hot, should be good at some things but I'm not all that fussed getting there. Guess getting that one sorted quickly is needed as I think she likes me quite a bit worryingly...
Probably should make good/bad point lists of women either, no one needs to know about that.
Haha. No I didn't end up having sex with a Steve in a field. She was pretty normal! Really cool, funny and very interesting. We have a lot more in common than I realised before. Wandered about, had a couple of drinks, I'd like to think that a 7 hour lunch date with no awkwardness is a good sign! I fudged up a bit at the end with a slightly feeble goodbye kiss, but in my defence we were in the street standing next to a large family, plus I was a bit nervous as to how far to go, haha (pathetic). Afterwards she texted me saying she was looking forward to the second date, which is also a good sign, right??
But the main thing that will interest you guys is- she was genuinely very hot. And she has a dirty, dirty mind...
*high 5* sounds a great date! Girl says she had a good time = girl wants MORE
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