Yeah, she was pretty 'keen' though and I knew I wouldn't want to see her again though. So basically I couldn't be bothered to drive that far for just sex.
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Yeah, she was pretty 'keen' though and I knew I wouldn't want to see her again though. So basically I couldn't be bothered to drive that far for just sex.
Oh right well I guess everyone has their own personal preference ... no sense in beating yourself up about it but you should be honest with her even if she doesn't want to be friends at least you were straight with her. I have more respect for people who tell the truth, me and my boyfriend have a very open and honest relationship.
Relationship, I would very much struggle to go above a size 10. Size 12 I could maybe cope with if they had an amazing personality. I was ruined with my ex, she was I reckon a size 8 and what a body!
See I've never really had a problem with size "per se", but I know my limits, I'm often reffered to by my mates as chubby but built like a brick s-house, which is probably why I don't mind, I can't date girls who're thin/small though, it doesn't feel right.
Size 16 is probably my limit, as long as it isn't in the face so to speak.
Size 16 is probably my limit, as long as it isn't in the face so to speak.
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I recently decided to create an account on POF as I'm getting nowhere when I'm out and about (I'm pretty shy)
Just wondered if anyone could take a browse over my profile and see if I've done anything wrong or if I could improve anything? I'm expecting quite a few amendments being honest
feel a bit silly signing up too... one can only but try eh?
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=32256125
Just wondered if anyone could take a browse over my profile and see if I've done anything wrong or if I could improve anything? I'm expecting quite a few amendments being honest
feel a bit silly signing up too... one can only but try eh?http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=32256125
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seems fine. If you change it to attract more you won't be attracting your match. Good luck hope you have more success then me
Finally had an email off her today, saying she's been busy at work and lots going on, she doesn't think she can spare the time for a relationship right now so would rather not see me again.
Could be true, sounds like BS to me though. Why would she be on a dating website, then go on 3 dates with me and tell me how much she likes me and it looking forward to the next date if she's got lots going on and doesn't think she can spare the time all of a sudden?
I guess she's just being polite and not saying, "I've got to know you and I've decided against it now"!
A bit gutted if I'm honest, she was really nice and I had a good feeling about it, there were no signs at all that she was going to do a 180 on me, if anything she was more eager than me about it! Kinda makes me wonder what I did wrong...
I feel your pain, i have had the exact same thing done to me! Its worse that i told her how i felt about her like a few days before, maybe that did it but she said it wasnt. I dont think i will ever fully understand women lol
Dont worry Big Chris, I can never even begin to understand what goes through their heads sometimes, personally I am just living the single game at the mo, cba with trying to pursue anyone, if it happens, it happens, if it doesn't.... well... BF3 is out in 2 weeks
I was seeing someone for 7 weeks from PoF until recently. Went very well, like brother and sister met all her close family and friends, spent a lot of time together and she was the one who asked me out. She's gorgeous too.
But alas, we're not perfect and maybe I was a little too full on and she hung onto my flaws to excuse herself from the relationship. The truth is she was and still is in love with her ex and wasn't ready... but you know once you've been and gone it doesn't come back again so I'll never see her again weather she's ready or not. Plus you don't know you're ready until someone comes and sweeps you off your feet.
Sad really, felt like a bit of a mug but I'm not too upset. Women are easy to understand really, and my advice for dating is to take it slow, and if you think your feeling are strong take it slower! You have to meet half way, don't use your feelings to try get them to open theirs to you... it's desperate and pushes them away if they're not ready. Just have fun and enjoy it, there's no rush for anyone in my opinion and if things do go sour it doesn't knock you back as much
But alas, we're not perfect and maybe I was a little too full on and she hung onto my flaws to excuse herself from the relationship. The truth is she was and still is in love with her ex and wasn't ready... but you know once you've been and gone it doesn't come back again so I'll never see her again weather she's ready or not. Plus you don't know you're ready until someone comes and sweeps you off your feet.
Sad really, felt like a bit of a mug but I'm not too upset. Women are easy to understand really, and my advice for dating is to take it slow, and if you think your feeling are strong take it slower! You have to meet half way, don't use your feelings to try get them to open theirs to you... it's desperate and pushes them away if they're not ready. Just have fun and enjoy it, there's no rush for anyone in my opinion and if things do go sour it doesn't knock you back as much
This is good advice actually, well said. I think a lot of people who have turned to internet dating (I don't have a problem with it but lots of people see it as a last resort!) are eager to meet someone, so it's easy to get carried away when you find someone you think you really like.my advice for dating is to take it slow, and if you think your feeling are strong take it slower! You have to meet half way, don't use your feelings to try get them to open theirs to you... it's desperate and pushes them away if they're not ready. Just have fun and enjoy it, there's no rush for anyone in my opinion and if things do go sour it doesn't knock you back as much
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Went on a POF date last night, she was a bit dull, conversation was hard work, and I didn't find her attractive. Waste of time!
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Did you bang that 18 year old?
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No, silly bint asked to postpone, so I told her I was busy for the next couple of weeks.
I'm supposed to be meeting another 18 year old next Saturday though, not sure if it will happen but we'll see.
I'm currently chatting to a very nice 27 year old from London, we seem to have a lot in common and are getting on well, so we'll see how that goes.
I'm having much more luck since I changed my profile from a normal "Hi, I'm blah blah, I work at blah blah, I......etc." to a simple list of random crap I like. I'm getting a lot more messages which is nice.
I have a second date tonight. Wasn't sure if there was a spark the first time we met but I've been feeling really excited over the last week about seeing him again.
Although I'm really nervous and panicking now because my delivery hasn't arrived so I have to rethink my outfit
Although I'm really nervous and panicking now because my delivery hasn't arrived so I have to rethink my outfit
you 'reckon' as in you mean you are guessing and don't know as in you never bought her an item of clothing. no wonder she is your 'ex'
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A few months ago some guy on PoF offered to drive 70 miles just to have passionate sex with me. I stopped talking to him after he said that and the other day he sent me a text out of the blue. I guess he's getting pretty desperate now
Ask him how many girls he has tried this play on.
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