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Well either way he's too busy polishing the royal rod to explain his thoughts so let's have some cake and move the **** on.

Edit: by he I mean monkee, but he keeps posting so he's ruining the point of my post! Kermit
 
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Well either way he's too busy polishing the royal rod to explain his thoughts so let's have some cake and move the **** on.

Do you think it's unreasonable for me to ask for an explanation for why he had that melt down? I'm finding it a bit bizarre how it seems I'm being blamed for stuff that I'm not doing.

I've got someone being confrontational towards me, and when I respond to defend myself I have people moaning at me and telling me to stop being confrontational. It's like it's opposite day all day every day at the moment.
 
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I honestly couldn't care less, if you don't want to continue down the line of people making daft comments and then you demanding they explain them which just drives them to make more comments then just ignore it and move on, or don't but as you can see that just leads us all round in one big lovely circle of crap.
 
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Maybe I've assumed too much of some people, and I am expecting them to be more reasonable than they can manage. Ignoring them doesn't seem like that bad of a suggestion.

The reason I directed it at you is because you come across as very reasonable and level headed.
 
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Unfortunately or fortunately depending on your view were a tight knit group in sa and that can make us come across as a bit off and we do like to go on the wind up sometimes but putting that all aside there's some very very knowledgeable people who are more than happy to put serious amounts of their own time into helping people when they see they are committed.
Now in all seriousness I'd actually quite like to see how your training goes because it's quite obvious you're naturally strong unlike a lot of us who have to work very hard for it and I'd to see you pushing some mental numbers once you've worked on the weaknesses in your form.
 
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If you put as much effort into your training, taking onboard the advice and pushing yourself as you do in lots of pointless and mind-numbingly vacuous arguments on here, I reckon we'll see some rather impressive numbers from you. You're clearly naturally gifted strength wise. Sure, you're not as handsome as some others (*please note this is a joke before you dissect my post*), but it is clear you have a lot of natural talent.

Acknowledging all the advice, feedback, and taking part in this community will undoubtedly see you achieve some impressive results. Bearing in mind that even the more experienced of us here often accept to take a step back and take advice from others (even people like icecold!).

For a training log there isn't much training going on, but a lot a rhetoric and spoffle waffle (*please note again this was meant as a bit of a joke*). Lighten up, and just get on with your training (hopefully taking heed to what people have said).

Look forward to helping you, getting involved and reading about your gainzzzz.

It would be nice to see a more structured work out plan and more structured work outs. Also understanding your goals - just getting stronger or bigger/slimmer as well? STRUCTURE! This log is too sporadic.

Go forth and lift (but do so in a logical/ordered manner - to suit my OCD ;)).
 
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All sorts of the above, you're clearly a strong guy and with the help of some of the guys on here (espically Ice) you'd become an uber beast. Imbrace the knowledge, which is awesome on here and would either cost you a fortune or take years worth of searching for.
 
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Unfortunately or fortunately depending on your view were a tight knit group in sa and that can make us come across as a bit off and we do like to go on the wind up sometimes but putting that all aside there's some very very knowledgeable people who are more than happy to put serious amounts of their own time into helping people when they see they are committed.

I can take wind ups, I like to wind up myself. I just noticed some weren't really on the wind up.

Now in all seriousness I'd actually quite like to see how your training goes because it's quite obvious you're naturally strong unlike a lot of us who have to work very hard for it and I'd to see you pushing some mental numbers once you've worked on the weaknesses in your form.

I can't help but feel some people's responses were influenced by what I've bolded.

But yeah, I tried squatting with a belt for the first time yesterday (2 in fact so that they'd fit...) and Serge noticed that my back was a lot more upright than usual, so one thing I'm going to work on is working on my core stability.

But yeah, thanks. :)

If you put as much effort into your training, taking onboard the advice and pushing yourself as you do in lots of pointless and mind-numbingly vacuous arguments on here, I reckon we'll see some rather impressive numbers from you. You're clearly naturally gifted strength wise. Sure, you're not as handsome as some others (*please note this is a joke before you dissect my post*), but it is clear you have a lot of natural talent.

I wouldn't say I've put effort in to the drama that's been going on, and speak for yourself, I'm clearly more good looking than the lot of you, have you seen my flowing mane of manly jungle man locks?

Acknowledging all the advice, feedback, and taking part in this community will undoubtedly see you achieve some impressive results. Bearing in mind that even the more experienced of us here often accept to take a step back and take advice from others (even people like icecold!).

Of course, the main issue for me was that some of things being said seemed disingenuous.

For a training log there isn't much training going on, but a lot a rhetoric and spoffle waffle (*please note again this was meant as a bit of a joke*). Lighten up, and just get on with your training (hopefully taking heed to what people have said).

You don't have to worry, I can take a joke, I'm usually the instigator of a lot of them. As for the lack of training, there is somewhat of a reason behind that (which is kinda related to the lack of structure too), I've been trying to right a bad sleeping pattern, whilst also trying to keep on top of lifting which means I'm nearly always training in a state of tiredness.

I tried training last night, I did a bit of bench press, to do a video just for LiE (170KG bench press video he asked for). I got it about half way up, and my strength was being sapped, so I was struggling to press it to lock out from half way up.

I tried squats, and they just felt horrible, I could feel myself being drained with each rep I did.

Look forward to helping you, getting involved and reading about your gainzzzz.

I'm gonna get a load of sleep, eat a load of food and take another go at it tomorrow, though it doesn't help that I've got a semi-cold.

It would be nice to see a more structured work out plan and more structured work outs. Also understanding your goals - just getting stronger or bigger/slimmer as well? STRUCTURE! This log is too sporadic.

Go forth and lift (but do so in a logical/ordered manner - to suit my OCD ;)).

My goals for the immediate future are just to work my way towards feeling healthier, no lethargic and tired so often (due to a poor sleeping pattern I've had for ages now).

I do want to cut down body fat, however I have already been doing that to some extent, as I've noticed quite a drop in that, despite the scales going up or staying roughly the same.

I did used to drink a lot of Lucozade, I still have it occasionally but very little. I'd say I've had a bottle once every 2 weeks maximum.

Now, I drink a lot of water (and my body tells me to drink more if I need it by way of muscle cramps if I'm not hydrated enough) or cordials

Another thing is eating, in that I don't eat enough often, I all too often go 12 hours plus without eating anything either due to the state of my sleeping, or just being lazy.

That aside, the food I do it typically is good nutritional food, and I like to cook, so I know what's going in to my food. When it comes to processed food, the only sort of stuff I tend to go near is pastas, noodles, sliced meats (salt beef/pastrami) and the occasional bowl of cereal (though I do have a guilty pleasure in chicken hot dogs now and again).

But my sort of ideal meals would be chicken/steak with rice and some vegetables. I could eat that sort of stuff all day errday.

This is one reason I'm looking forward to the summer, last summer, we'd do a few barbeques a week over at Serge's, which were some seriously good eats.

But yeah, this is all part of the actually taking it seriously that I'm talking about.

All sorts of the above, you're clearly a strong guy and with the help of some of the guys on here (espically Ice) you'd become an uber beast. Imbrace the knowledge, which is awesome on here and would either cost you a fortune or take years worth of searching for.

Thanks :)
 
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That's teetering towards being pretty arrogant.

I don't think that's it at all. You aren't THAT strong, particularly considering your bodyweight.

Also, I'm certainly not the one displaying arrogance. But seriously, why am I not surprised that that's the only part you responded to?

I never claimed to be "that" strong, the fact that you felt the need to mention it like that is a little suspect.

If I'm saying I want to take it seriously and make some proper strength gains, how is it that you think I think I'm "that" strong?

However, my point was that for some reason, some people seem extremely bitter to the extent of posting personal attacks, and then I get told to stop being confrontational when I defend myself.

I guess I'm going to be blamed once again for the confrontational post you've made, as I'm not allowed to respond to it, else I'm being petty and argumentative, right?
 
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Oh come on, don't play dumb. Out of everything I said you chose to respond to that when you know full well I'm not professing to be ultra-strong, there'd be nothing for me to take seriously if I was arrogantly displaying my strength.
 
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I think you've confused yourself here.

I was only pointing out that I don't think people are responding badly to you because of your strength compared to how hard other people have to work to achieve similar levels of strength. You seem to havesome natural affinity to strength training, but nothing remarkable. Also, you are (again) assuming a level of pettiness in the people here that just doesn't exist.

If you're suggesting that I'm jealous then you seriously misunderstand the situation.

You really need to stop your defensive knee jerk reaction.
 
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I don't think you are jealous, I didn't say that you are either. But to be blunt, people are posting confrontational stuff, then acting confused when I respond to it.

As I said, stop playing dumb, you've posted a number of inflammatory stuff.

"You are not a special snow flake"

"You seem to havesome natural affinity to strength training, but nothing remarkable."

"You aren't THAT strong, particularly considering your bodyweight."

These are all responses to things I haven't said, so I don't know why you're saying them. I simply expanding on what tom_e was saying.

I am not professing to be strong, and I've said this multiple times, but you keep responding with things about how I'm not that strong.

Also, you say people aren't responding badly, you have seen Monkee's posts right? It's like the epitome of bitterness, and surprise surprise I somehow managed to be blamed for that.
 
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Spoffle - you'd really do well to chill out and not read into posts things that aren't there. Whatever is on previous pages ignore for now and don't let that colour your later posts (or your reactions to other people's posts).

Icecold's comment was not in any way confrontational. However, people trying to help you are going to have to be blunt at times. If you're expecting people to walk on egg shells around you all the time then you are continuously going to get annoyed, waste your own time typing up posts explaining your overly-sensitive attitude and finally waste our time having to respond to it.

Drop it and just let things slide a little more. You're just exasperating those on here that would help you out and if anyone *does* enjoy winding you up you're providing them with ample openings.
 
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I don't expect anyone to walk on egg shells, it's just the constant "you're not THAT strong" when I haven't professed to be, that I find unnecessary, as it's a response to something I didn't say, and again why I said it was confrontational.

The only thing he decided to respond to out of everything I said was "But you're not THAT strong", it's coming across as picking for a reaction. I'm pretty sure I've already said "What do you expect, I DO weigh 150KG".

I am certainly chilled out, I just think people are trying to cover up snide comments with "Wat, I'm joking bro" or "You're reading in to it".
 
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You're really not coming across as chilled out in the slightest. If you are then I would seek to change your writing style to attempt to convey a bit more of the serenity that you're feeling.

I'm not saying that people haven't made comments in the past. However, an admin has taken time to respond to this thread to try and help it along twice. Even if someone did want to push it they wouldn't do so now - and reading Icecold's latest posts myself I didn't read anything snide in it at all.
 
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You're really not coming across as chilled out in the slightest. If you are then I would seek to change your writing style to attempt to convey a bit more of the serenity that you're feeling.

I brought this up before anyway, it's partly to do with written communication. I know I have a very formal writing style, it's just the way I prefer to write.

I'm not saying that people haven't made comments in the past. However, an admin has taken time to respond to this thread to try and help it along twice. Even if someone did want to push it they wouldn't do so now - and reading Icecold's latest posts myself I didn't read anything snide in it at all.

Of course, and I appreciate Freefaller's input, I'm just not sure how to interprate Icecold's choice to respond to what he did specifically, as anything but picking for a response, especially after the lack of drama in the last 10 or so posts. It just come across as him wanting to start the drama up again.

The bit that I'm finding tedious is that it's clear people have made petty comments, but it seems like most are wanting to blame me for the actions of others, and it's coming across as opposite land/ground hog day ish.
 
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