missus found me looking at pron

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Oh dear, I'll guarantee that even at my old age that I'm up for it way more times than my missus is and I always have been.
I have never refused my wife and if I had because I'd already cracked one off then I can see the problem.
You must be a lucky bloke to get the 'real thing' four times a day.

No, but i wonder if that's why you do it, because your not getting enough. Or perhaps, the fact you do it makes her feel uncomfortable, unloved and redundant? Don't get me wrong, i don't mean to cause offense and this is not a personal dig. I am merely trying to understand certain things, and i enjoy delving deeper into things.

4 times a day? You'll wear it out!

Would you agree that it is to some degree, laziness?
 
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Some women feel threatened if you watch porn. I've no idea why.

Just explain to her why you were doing it, and that it has no bearing on your relationship. You fancied a cheeky w*** and she wasn't around to do it properly, so you had to settle for something completely inferior, but it got the job done.*


NOTE: I may have been here before :p

Ant :cool:
 
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Very interesting thread here.

My current girlfriend always jokes about porn with me and my housemate. On a serious note she always said, "if you never look at porn then I would be worried about you". Goes to show not every woman is against porn and the like.
 
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when i have been in a 'fulfilling' relationship, i couldn't see a need for it.

Anyone care to respond to my comments?

when i've had a really good main meal, i can still sometimes make room for a huge, fattening, sickly dessert - it's not about needs, it's about wants - surely?

hey - if guys enjoy it, and their girl is happy with that, why not?
if it can improve a relationship, spice it up, or even just make an awesome relationship that little bit more awesome - it can only be a good thing
 
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Hilarious, hardly comparable to a relationship though is it?

Similarly, how would all the blokes on here like it if they regularly caught there misses bean rubbing over two blokes go at it together? Or decided not to give them any that day because there sex life was being fulfilled by an AA battery operated replacement? Not good i doubt.

Pull up a chair and watch!
 
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good thread here, read the whole blooming thing, took me ages but worth it.

its funny how woman will say that if a guy looks at porn its because she isn't enough for him and the guy doesn't love the girl etc and the girl may end up leaving, when then its actually the other way round, its the guys that aren't enough for the girls as the look girls don't want a guy who looks at porn so they leave and the guys are perfectly happy with the girl, if that makes sense?
 

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Without reading 10 pages worth I take it you all realise that the fact its porn is inconsequential in a lot of ways. Its the lying and deceit that cause the most hurt and upset.

Yes there is an element of self confidence and comparisons being made but from the little I understand it is the fact that it is hidden and lied about that causes more hurt than the actual porn itself.
 
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Damn, I've been trying to find the forums all weekend and I can't- bet someone on here knows where it is? Or has heard of it? Anyways...

There's a forum similar to this one with a "Desktop Thread" just like OcUK has. And one guy posted up a screen-grab without checking everything and one of the folders there was "Shemale Vids" or something.

There was about 4 posts of "Nice wallpaper" etc then someone goes "LOL- nice Shemale Folder" and about 18 pages of mickey-taking.

Just can't find the jasper!
 
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Damn, I've been trying to find the forums all weekend and I can't- bet someone on here knows where it is? Or has heard of it? Anyways...

There's a forum similar to this one with a "Desktop Thread" just like OcUK has. And one guy posted up a screen-grab without checking everything and one of the folders there was "Shemale Vids" or something.

There was about 4 posts of "Nice wallpaper" etc then someone goes "LOL- nice Shemale Folder" and about 18 pages of mickey-taking.

Just can't find the jasper!

Pffft, must have been done deliberately tbh.
 
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You know - the lack of respect a lot of the "far better halves" get on this forum is really quite sad.
What with a thread like this - containing posts (OK, mainly from young people who will learn better in the future, but still) who don't see anything wrong with what the OP was doing and think all GF's should "get a grip".
Combined with the "Post your GF thread" which contains (amongst the fake posts) numerous "GF would kill me if she knew I'd posted this" posts - I'd really love to be able to warn a lof of these girls.
They are setting themselves up for a hell of a lot of grief in the future and the poor things just don't know it at the moment :(
I worry about you. You must live life wrapped in cotton wool.
 
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