my god, someone who understands the male psyche! i've walked in on an ex before, it was straight porn, i didn't mind... it was quite hotwhen i've had a really good main meal, i can still sometimes make room for a huge, fattening, sickly dessert - it's not about needs, it's about wants - surely?
hey - if guys enjoy it, and their girl is happy with that, why not?
if it can improve a relationship, spice it up, or even just make an awesome relationship that little bit more awesome - it can only be a good thing
i think the only reason she got annoyed with the OP is because she thinks that he doesn't find her attractive, or something, and is jealous of the girl in the pics/video (aah, ADSL) perhaps a plan of action would be to see if she wants to make some, and promise that that's all you'll ever look at from then on, it's lying, but it's cool (see how much i don't understand the female psyche?) - and i have my own problems anyway