Monogomy?

To quite David E Kelley

If a man is told he has to drive the same car for the rest of his life, he would never buy the car. Marriage is stupid.
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Thou in our society, cheating is morally wrong (Which I believe in). Thou scientificly, man a program to procreate with as many female as he can.
 
Rich_L said:
Hehe there's loads of great arguments on this sort of topic

Is using a prostitute cheating? If it's just a service with no emotion, isn't it the same as self-luuuuurve?

Is self-luuuurve cheating?
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Of course using a prostitute is cheating ... No high-fives for you !
 
goldilocks said:
i guess i just know

i'm not the sort of girl to be offended by the watching of porn, or by the oggling of other females
watching/looking can *never* be as good as performing

as for myself - i agree with piggy and libs - i appreciate that other 'people' do it - but it's not for me
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Guessing and actually knowing are two different things. Statistically, the chance you're with "the one" is a load of bull. You're just merely compatable people. Without looking you cannot verify that you're with the best. How can you judge if you don't compare?

I'm not having a dig, so don't take it as such. It's good to know you're happy, but I'm just saying your reasoning isn't exactly concrete.
 
here here Goldilocks :p Men watching p0rn really doesnt bother me either, but there are some sincere men out there that dont purely think with their tackle! Not to diss all men as I am sure there are many that think solely of their other halves.
 
shifty_uk said:
When I was in my last relationship, out of the 2 years I never had any dreams about any other girl what so ever, as soon as the relationship finished, about 2 days later I had a dream about a girl I like lol.


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It wasnt a dirty dream!!!...it was a nice dream :)
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Thats a cream dream! :D
 
Piggymon said:
:shrugs: nothing wrong with porn .. doesn't bother me in the slightest

There's nothing wrong with being able to appreciate that a woman is pretty but IMO thinking about sleeping with other women is over the line
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I guess the thing is though that even if a guy does have a thought like that pop into their head their hardly going to make it public knowledge.

"Hi, hun how was your day"
"Good thanks, lovely day out, saw this very attractive girl and thought for a millisecond what she'd look like naked"

*explodes*

:p

Piggymon said:
Of course using a prostitute is cheating ... No high-fives for you !
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Haha I didn't say which side of the argument I came down on :p We used to argue stuff like that at Uni with the girls, playing Devils was always a laugh :)
 
Piggymon said:
Grow up will you ?

Just because you think with your **** it doesn't mean every other man does
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Whilst I'll agree with you to a point, and my original post proves this. I'm not sure you're on the mark with this one.

They say a woman needs to feel loved to have sex, and a man needs to have sex to feel loved. Never a truer addage spoken :p

However, I do agree with you entirely on the love blinkers thing. I see other women in the street, appreciate their positive qualities, and that's about it. I'm attracted to no one but my gubbins :)

Ant :cool:
 
Piggymon said:
:shrugs: nothing wrong with porn .. doesn't bother me in the slightest

There's nothing wrong with being able to appreciate that a woman is pretty but IMO thinking about sleeping with other women is over the line
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Good thing you girls havent learned to read minds then! ;)
 
Piggymon said:
:shrugs: nothing wrong with porn .. doesn't bother me in the slightest

There's nothing wrong with being able to appreciate that a woman is pretty but IMO thinking about sleeping with other women is over the line
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So you have rights over mens thoughts now? :rolleyes: Just remember when your other half is watching price is right he's looking at the woman, not the Dyson vacuum cleaner.
 
I always summed it up like:

What you think you can get away with
What you can ACTUALLY get away with
The respect you have for the relationship
The respect you have for your partner
The respect you have for yourself

If even a couple of those things are the wrong answer, then your in for trouble.
 
I think if you have had a few partners in the past you know what your looking for in your ideal partner or the one. I think then you do just know when you have found the person right for you. I dont think my partner is mr right now he is mr right (sorry that sounds a little cheesy) but it is true. He is for keeps until he gets rid of me or hurts me, maybe im naive but i dont believe he will ?
 
Rich_L said:
I guess the thing is though that even if a guy does have a thought like that pop into their head their hardly going to make it public knowledge.

"Hi, hun how was your day"
"Good thanks, lovely day out, saw this very attractive girl and thought for a millisecond what she'd look like naked"

*explodes*
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Nah youve just never truly been in a trusting relationship! ;)
 
Nix said:
blah blah blah your reasoning isn't exactly concrete.
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lol - i know it's not!
:p
it's love - it's not rocket science
i don't need facts/figures/proof - it's just a feeling
and i like it
nix, you make me giggle :D
 
Nix said:
Guessing and actually knowing are two different things. Statistically, the chance you're with "the one" is a load of bull. You're just merely compatable people. Without looking you cannot verify that you're with the best. How can you judge if you don't compare?
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Heh, leading onto... is dating just like gambling? Do you 'quit while you're ahead', or see if 'something better' comes along?

Maybe Noel should turn Deal or No Deal into a dating show. Be interesting to hear the 'bankers offers' :/
 
WantoN said:
However, I do agree with you entirely on the love blinkers thing. I see other women in the street, appreciate their positive qualities, and that's about it. I'm attracted to no one but my gubbins :)

Ant :cool:
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/fluffles WantoN

see ... now here is a nice man who doesn't have to rate every woman he sees on the " hitometer "
 
Otacon said:
That's old hat tbh. Me and Feek rate in pints :D:o
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Haha thirded! Though the monster that crept into my bed when I was passed out was seriously worrying...apparently as my flatmate walked past the room I was snoring as she was eating my face :/ Wasn't even invited the cheeky beggar!!!
 
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