Monogomy?

[Piggymon]

So you have rights over mens thoughts now? Just remember when your other half is watching price is right he's looking at the woman, not the Dyson vacuum cleaner.

Not over mens thoughts no but I have a right to be respected by my other half and I am

I honestly DO NOT believe he looks at other women and thinks that he would like to sleep with them .. he may well see a woman and think oh she's pretty which is a completely different kettle of fish

 

[Nix]

/fluffles WantoN

see ... now here is a nice man who doesn't have to rate every woman he sees on the " hitometer "

It's not a concious thing. Men will do it regardless because its what the hormones tell us to do, just like babies make women broody etc.

Men have and will think about women until the end of time. Thinking and doing are two different things.

I wouldn't stop looking at other girls because I was in a relationship, but actually acting on the impulses is totally different ball game.

 

[nero120]

It's not a concious thing. Men will do it regardless because its what the hormones tell us to do, just like babies make women broody etc.

Men have and will think about women until the end of time. Thinking and doing are two different things.

I wouldn't stop looking at other girls because I was in a relationship, but actually acting on the impulses is totally different ball game.

An honest man. Bravo!

 

[Vonhelmet]

So you have rights over mens thoughts now? Just remember when your other half is watching price is right he's looking at the woman, not the Dyson vacuum cleaner.

She's got a fair point though.

Besides, she said there's a difference between admiring beauty and wanting to jump someone's bones, so I'm not sure which thoughts you're arguing about with your Price Is Right statement.

 

[Vonhelmet]

Of course using a prostitute is cheating ... No high-fives for you !

Is a High Five cheating?

 

[Rich_L]

As if a guy looks at a girl and thinks 'My, what an attractive young specimen of the female species'

In my experience, the eyes are almost involuntarily drawn towards cracking norks or legs being displayed, I can't help it, they just look great..it's the flesh tone in the peripherals that does it cap'n!

Is a High Five cheating?

Haha!

 

[shifty_uk]

imo, theres thinking girls are attractive and then theres being perverted. I don't like seeing boys standing whistling at a girl and shouting madly at her, or driving past in the car beeping and going crazy, thats just mad, especially if the person is with there partner....which i've experienced before, and its not nice. I also hate seeing guys with there girls and then seeing them stare like mad at another girl, its just not nice.

As said on another thread by a couple of people, maybe I've got some problems with this inside me, but this is just the way I am.

 

[squiffy]

Depends on what she means by "thinking" if you mean if you see two babes walking along the beach you would give a sly glance/gawp at them and think for a couple of seconds "mmm" but persuing a affair with say a neighbour is another thing. You could think about 50 oiled up women, it's nothing to do anyone else.

Like or not thinking is your own thoughts, so he could be thinking about dumping you. Tough cookie and nothing you can do to stop him, except become a telepath.

Unless women grow a set of balls they don't know how a man feels, although I guess you could compare that to the desire of owning a Prada bag to a girl...you guys know what I mean.

 

[Sparky__H]

To be fair if I see a really nice looking girl I can’t even say there’s even any thinking involved. I just notice, glance and carry on walking.

I’ve forgotten about her 5 seconds later...

As far as the three girls commenting on this post have said so far, I have no doubt that everything they say about themselves, their partners and their relationships completely true. Its just I do know a few sickeningly loved up couples and I have caught a few sneaky sideward glances now and then. I swear they don’t even know their doing it either.

 

[Vonhelmet]

Unless women grow a set of balls they don't know how a man feels, although I guess you could compare that to the desire of owning a Prada bag to a girl...you guys know what I mean.

You sound like you really understand women.

 

[squiffy]

You sound like you really understand women.

That was probably sarcastic reply, but my point stands. The average women can't and doesn't understand average man either. And vice versa.

Fashion
Hair
Handbags
Nails
Celebs
Gossip
Cars
Motorbikes
Hi-Fi
Computers
Model cars/planes/helis
etc..

 

[Piggymon]

Unless women grow a set of balls they don't know how a man feels, although I guess you could compare that to the desire of owning a Prada bag to a girl...you guys know what I mean.

I have 1 handbag - a cheap £4 one from Tescos and have no desire to own anymore so that's that out of the window

Of course he is still going to appreciate that there are lots of pretty women in this world just as I still appreciate that there are handsome men in this world but what I am trying to get across is that even though you can see that someone is nice looking you don't get the " I'd like to hit that " thoughts .. not because you think oh I shouldn't think that ..you just don't !

I can't speak for everyone else of course and am only speaking from my own experiences

In past relationships I have been in I HAVE had these thoughts but this one is different

 

[Sparky__H]

That was probably sarcastic reply, but my point stands. The average women can't and doesn't understand average man either.

Never underestimate women my friend.

It’s how you end up on the floor, in the middle of the street, clutching your balls and crying like a little girl.

And with a comment like that, I think I can guess what Piggymon whould like to do right now.

 

[Old Turkey]

Men are fully capable of loving someone while shaggin' another. I don't think women are, though. Maybe women will accept this, one day, far into the future, after the human species has evolved, and where women wake up in the morning to find a piece of their anatomy inflated -- completely out of their control -- day in, day out, year after year. Women need to stop viewing what men do through the eyes of a woman and men need to stop viewing what women do through the eyes of a man. The world will be a better place. I'm an admittedly self-centered egocentric individual who throw you through highs and lows, so at times I can be very hard to deal and live with, so I would say a) based upon my personality type. These sorts of things dont make people bad people, but I think you have to know the type of person you're involved with and accept what they do instead of trying to force and change them.

 

[Vonhelmet]

That was probably sarcastic reply, but my point stands. The average women can't and doesn't understand average man either. And vice versa.

Fashion
Hair
Handbags
Nails
Celebs
Gossip
Cars
Motorbikes
Hi-Fi
Computers
Model cars/planes/helis
etc..

I bet the Octadon understands all of them.

*runs*

 

[Nix]

When blokes check out other women, the only thought is "I'd like to hit it."

Why else would men be looking at other women?

Anyway, most decent blokes wouldn't act on these impulses, so it's nothing to worry about. I can guarenttee that Desmo has these thoughts as he's as man as the rest of us, but I really doubt he'd ever act on them.

It's hard to explain, but just because you think about it, doesn't mean you're going to run off and actually do it...

 

[Piggymon]

That was probably sarcastic reply, but my point stands. The average women can't and doesn't understand average man either.

Fashion - Not much interest
Hair - Fair enough
Handbags - Don't care
Nails - Fair enough
Celebs - Nope
Gossip - Nope
Cars - yes please !
Motorbikes - yes please - Went to motoGP last year and loved every minute of it
Hi-Fi - can appreciate it but don't really understand it
Computers - Worked in IT for 4 years
Model cars/planes/helis - Love them ! ... Also love getting dirty and muddy and doing boyish things
etc..

My point is you can't speak for all men just as I can't speak for all women

 

[Piggymon]

When blokes check out other women, the only thought is "I'd like to hit it."

And how exactly can you say this about ALL men ?? it's impossible for you to speak for all of mankind

If you do this ..fine but don't tar everyone with the same brush

 

[Nix]

And how exactly can you say this about ALL men ?? it's impossible for you to speak for all of mankind

If you do this ..fine but don't tar everyone with the same brush

I am a man, my friends are men. My brothers are men. I think i'm more up on the situation than any woman claims to be.

Men != Women

 

[Libs]

True us girls dont have a penis but i bet some men can look at an attractive women and just appreciate she is pretty. I dont believe all men do instantly see a half decent female and think "Id hit it"! Especially not if they have found the woman they do want to marry?