My Aunty who I spoke about in the thread earlier was told today, she has 4-8 months/ 2 years with chemo.
This was after all the problems trying to get them to see her initially and them refusing her at the A&E.
She was given the all clear a few months ago, but the whole process there were problems and lack of care from nurses. Her stoma was going to be removed next month…she was going to go back to normal.. as she feels better…but.. now this.
The worst part is that the Dr just brought her in and matter of factly just told her, no empathy no alternatives suggested, just said it’s spread, her daughter ran out crying and he just said, I suppose the appointment is over now, I am dead serious.
How the **** do I know they have actually considered all the options, this is the NHS we’re talking about now it’s gotten to the point I can’t trust them, I can get better treatment in other countries these days. How can we trust that they have looked at other options? The entire process was as mess from the beginning..
I’m legit so worn down, between this and my moms lack of treatment by the GPs/A&E I’m just done with this country.
I just can’t trust the institution anymore they’ve become so unreliable and untrustworthy, the Dr who told my Aunty was horrible…I’ve been in a similar situation before in the past and it was never like this..he just didn’t seem to care or explore anything, it’s like they’ve just written her off, she’s only early 40s..
I honestly just give up.