Soldato
- Joined
- 13 Jan 2004
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Hi everyone,
Been reading through this thread to get some tips and stuff, seems like a good place to vent my feelings as everyone seems understanding and not going to take the mickey out of anyone.
Basically, I'm 20, and in the last 3-4 years have slowly put more and more weight on. I never cared about what I ate, and the only exercise i really did was playing football on a Sunday. Things got really bad when i got too old for junior football, and never moved onto mens football, and over the years I have gotten bigger and bigger. I wouldnt say I am fat, but i have quite a large belly now and getting a bit tubby round the face.
The only time I have managed to lose loads of weight was when one of my girlfriends broke up with me, i was so upset i didnt eat for about 3 weeks, after this i felt more confident because i looked better, with that though meant i ate more as i was happy.
Now that I am single again, my weight is really getting to me. The only exercise I do is football on Saturdays (which i struggle with big time as I havent played for ages) unfortunately the season ended yesterday so im worried that things will get worse. I have bought some scales to see how much i weigh and will hopefully keep an eye on things. Also im trying to keep an eye on what I eat, checking calories etc, but i just have no motivation for exercise. The gym is out of the question, not sure i could afford it, and i know i wouldnt go.
I know its a simple case of, eat sensibly, and exercise, but it seems a lot of us here have the problem that exercise just isnt fun. The only thing i enjoy is playing football, and me and my mates used to play 5 a side every wednesday night, but recently that has stopped.
To make matter worse, im meeting a girl ive known for like 10 years on Tuesday, i havent seen her for a couple, and while we have been talking i can tell she wants to try and make a go of things because we always had a little thing with each other. Anyway, im just worried she will see how different i look now and be really let down.
Anyway, sorry for the long post, had to get things off my chest
Been reading through this thread to get some tips and stuff, seems like a good place to vent my feelings as everyone seems understanding and not going to take the mickey out of anyone.
Basically, I'm 20, and in the last 3-4 years have slowly put more and more weight on. I never cared about what I ate, and the only exercise i really did was playing football on a Sunday. Things got really bad when i got too old for junior football, and never moved onto mens football, and over the years I have gotten bigger and bigger. I wouldnt say I am fat, but i have quite a large belly now and getting a bit tubby round the face.
The only time I have managed to lose loads of weight was when one of my girlfriends broke up with me, i was so upset i didnt eat for about 3 weeks, after this i felt more confident because i looked better, with that though meant i ate more as i was happy.
Now that I am single again, my weight is really getting to me. The only exercise I do is football on Saturdays (which i struggle with big time as I havent played for ages) unfortunately the season ended yesterday so im worried that things will get worse. I have bought some scales to see how much i weigh and will hopefully keep an eye on things. Also im trying to keep an eye on what I eat, checking calories etc, but i just have no motivation for exercise. The gym is out of the question, not sure i could afford it, and i know i wouldnt go.
I know its a simple case of, eat sensibly, and exercise, but it seems a lot of us here have the problem that exercise just isnt fun. The only thing i enjoy is playing football, and me and my mates used to play 5 a side every wednesday night, but recently that has stopped.
To make matter worse, im meeting a girl ive known for like 10 years on Tuesday, i havent seen her for a couple, and while we have been talking i can tell she wants to try and make a go of things because we always had a little thing with each other. Anyway, im just worried she will see how different i look now and be really let down.
Anyway, sorry for the long post, had to get things off my chest