Sigma - you've got to accept some constructive criticism - that's the only way we improve ourselves, is to accept the projection that others perceive of ourselves.
I admit, UE's sometimes a bit harsh with you, and you two clearly clash (a little pathetic from both of you if you ask me... but anyway).
If you want to get bigger, you have to eat. If you're not getting bigger after 2-3 months, irrespective of fat or not, then you're not eating enough. If you're getting stronger though, then you are progressing, if you're not, then you need to revisit your diet and your lifting.
Perhaps create a log for yourself (on here if you want) tracking your daily diet, your weight training. Have you worked out your 1RMs? As frankly it's almost useless using any training plan if you don't know what your maximum capacity is - as most weight training programs SHOULD be based on a percentage of your 1RM. A lot don't - heck, a lot of bodybuilding "programmes" have X amount of weight * Y amount of reps... how is this quantified?!!!?! It's not - it's just a "do this and you'll get jacked... look at me" - it's ********. You need to understand what your maximum capacity is, and then lift within that capacity - depending on your goals.
How far along are you with this?
You say you struggle with diet, have you listed a weekly quantity of what you currently eat? Yes it's a ballache, but it seems as though you need to do this. Heck, if you do struggle with calories, you may well have to go down the MRP route if you're not able to eat a lot of things.
We're here to help, but you've got to take on board the advice - it's not easy all this. It's taken me over 1/2 a dozen years to get where I am, and I'm annoyed that I'm no further than I would hope to be - I need to heed my own advice too. IT's not easy.
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