Sigma - you've got to accept some constructive criticism - that's the only way we improve ourselves, is to accept the projection that others perceive of ourselves.
Other than your post and Chris' post I see no criticism? Just UE finding an opportunity to beat his chest a bit.
I admit, UE's sometimes a bit harsh with you, and you two clearly clash (a little pathetic from both of you if you ask me... but anyway).
Well my gripe with UE started when he said that I was a shining example of everything that is wrong with this forum. I took that as a pretty big insult, considering nobody knows of my personal situation, equally I do not know anyone personally on here either. Couple that with his belittling and superiority complex (I'm not the only one who noticed this) I started treating him with the same lack of respect that he showed me.
So I thought I'd be the bigger man (excuse the pun
) and put him on ignore, how is that being pathetic? No doubt his last post contains more insults too.
I appreciate your advice FF and will take it on board, but as you didn't see the original post, I'll clarify what it contained:
I was merely posting up some pics to compare with where I was in April of this year (a point at which I wasn't lifting, due to exams and other stuff). Nor have I been lifting seriously for the last year, quite where anyone else got the idea that I was unhappy with my progress, I have no idea. I guess people just thought that UE not being, well, UE.
Over the last year or so I have gained around 3kg, nothing great, but then I wasn't really trying very hard. I simply didn't give the gym priority over trying to kick-start my career. I don't really care if others have been able to juggle everything all at once, I simply didn't want to. Since June of this year I have been training consistently but only started tracking weights in August. Now I've got my routine sorted and I'm fairly comfortable (although not with squats, I guess this is me being a *****, right?
) I have realised that I need to improve my diet, well, I need to track it and see what's what.
I don't know why I'm having to explain myself all because UE spat his dummy out and I can't be bothered to type any more.