The whole thing just stink and to be honest. Because if the first one got detoured (as it got sent to your return address), you would make sure it got there the second time, the extra quid would have meant it gets there practically and at the minimum it was the rule wasnt it that you provide proof should your parcel goes missing. the If shayper didn't have the funds at the time to buy and send it and I do understand that as in university funds are short, then just say so, because what happened so far it just stinks of lies. I am going to bet real life, and all your ladies of late have taken over your time and money and you simply haven't sent it. That's fine, just be honest, i am more incline to believe that than it got lost twice in the mail. Because who really would be so willing to buy presents again so willingly yet can't afford a the extra quid to have it sent recorded?