Go though all the bbq pit boy videos, all you need to know on how to set it up etc.
Video above, browser there channel to find the how to, then try some recipes.
http://bbqpitboys.com/tips
http://bbqpitboys.com/recipes/how-to-barbecue-grilling-tips-tools-and-spices#.UXt568u9KSM
http://bbqpitboys.com/recipes/how-to-barbecue-and-grill-tips#.UXt6wsu9KSN
And don't forget PrimalGrill, watch his program's if you haven't
http://www.primalgrill.org/
Cheers!
I'm a confident cook in the kitchen, but have never really BBQ'd outside of disposables with burgers on. I want to try proper cuts of meat!