Essential
Unofficial FO4 patch -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/4598/?
Achievements with mods enabled -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/12465/?
script extender for use with above -
http://f4se.silverlock.org/
Armorsmith Extended -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/2228/?
Full Dialogue Interface -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/1235/?
Armor and Weapon Keywords Community Resource (AWKCR) (needed for a fair few gun and armour mods)-
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/6091/?
LOOT - Load Order Optimisation Tool -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/5310/?
Face and body
CBBE body mod -
Body slide and outfit studio (for use with CBBE) -
Good guide on how to use Body slide -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wkwtgp3x25s
Ponytail Hairstyles by Azar v2.0 -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/8126/?
Ponytail Variations (some different styles) -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/6294/?
Valkyr Female Face and Body Textures -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/3841/?
The Eyes Of Beauty Fallout Edition -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/133/?
Eye Normal Map Fix Fallout 4 Edition (needed for above mod) -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/819/?
Young Female Face Texture -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/552/?
Looks Mirror (adds a craftable mirror so you can mess with face etc from your house) -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/13627/?
Environment
True Storms - Wasteland Edition (Thunder-Rain-Weather Redone) -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/4472/?
Vivid Fallout - Landscapes -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/1769/?
Vivid Fallout - Trees -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/8742/?
Vivid Fallout - Rocks -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/1400/?
Enhanced Blood Textures -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/212/?
Improved Map with Visible Roads -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/1215/?
WET - Water Enhancement Textures -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/244/?
Fallout Texture Overhaul Stars -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/145/?
Fallout Texture Overhaul Moons -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/160?
Touch of Green (adds some more greenery) -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/377/?
GRASSLANDS (alternative to touch of green) -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/11267/?
Springtime Trees (adds some leaves to the trees) -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/15421/?
Darker Nights -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/191/?
Enhanced Wasteland Preset -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/40/?
Armor + clothes/accessories
NCR Ranger Veteran Armor -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/9034/?
Eli's Armour Collection Remade -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/7369/?
Nanosuit 6.2 -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/7451/?
Courser X-92 Power Suit CBBE and PipBoy -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/9278/?
Eli's Sleeveless Outfits -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/8510/?
Custom Combat Armor (can change colour and add decals etc) -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/4865/?
Black Pip-Boy -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/445/?
LED BLACK Pip-Boy Deluxe -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/4528/?
HD Bandanas -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/439/?
Lacy Underwear - Just search on Nexus
Pip-Boy Flashlight (Pipboy - Power Armor - Lamp Overhaul) -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/10840/? (choose between loads of different flashlight beam patters and changes the light on/off sound to a double or single click like a modern flashlight, rather than a weird gong)
Gameplay
Craftable Ammo -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/798/?
No Negative Affinity (so you dont get disliked by follower) -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/3276/?
Killable Children -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/197/?
Hunting Rifle (Sniper) Damage Increase -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/1056/?
Cheats
Easy Hacking -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/266/?
Easy Lockpicking -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/227/?
Carry Weight Modifications -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/214/?
Companion Infinite Ammo -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/6233/? (so they don't keep reverting to a plank of wood)
Easy picking/hacking are worth using after you have maxed them out in game as it just become tedious after a while.
Settlements
Spring Cleaning (remove all the junk that can't usually be scrapped) -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/4640/?
Homemaker - Expanded Settlements (adds loads of stuff) -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/1478/?
Longer Power Lines -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/2241/?
Not done much on my settlements so just a few I found useful, I'm sure theres a lot of mods I have missed.
UI/ better sorting
Valdacil's Item Sorting -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/3877/?
DEF_UI -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/10654/?
Better Mod Descriptions -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/4760/?
Weapons
Wasteland Ordnance - The Definitive Weapon Collection -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/11427/?
M4A1 SOPMOD -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/15495/?
MK14 EBR -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/10099/?
DOOMBASED Weapons Merged -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/16387/?
9 Standalone Pistol -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/8421/?
Crossbows of the Commonwealth -
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/10484/?