Soldato
Not tried the Lynx yet, but what I have found with the wheeled vehicles is that they are a lot stronger end game. If you rush for early spots you'll be outspotted and die fast. If you aim for safe spots and let your other scouts (if you have them) do the early spots this will allow you to survive. Once half their team is dead the wheeled vehicles start to shine, you can dart passed the enemies because there are a lot less guns shooting at you. You have a lot more map to play with for spotting & flanking or killing arty. Almost auto-loader mentality, survive until half the enemy team is dead, then you become a lot stronger!!
I will give the patient play style more of a try, I have tried it before but I felt like I was losing so much spotting potential that it was hurting my overall game. Any enclosed maps are also very difficult to avoid death too, one bump or jump and you are done.