Laptops and monitors don't use much energy. We're also pretty switched on (no pun intended) when it comes to energy usage. Don't have a dishwasher or a tumble dryer. We don't do roast dinners so don't use the electric oven much. Hobs are gas. All lights are LED. We'd use much less gas if it was up to me, but the other half can't cope in anything less than 20c.
Only energy consumers are our small oven, the washing machine, dehumidifer and my gaming PC every now and again. Even the TV doesn't use much power.
When everything is off or on standby in the house we only consume 80-120 watts. That's our base load including a router, modem and a NAS. Pops up a bit when the fridge kicks in.
We had A/C installed in August this year and that used a fair bit of power, but it's less than you think.