relationship problems :/ whos in the wrong?

16 and doesn't understand a simple statement.
Some people really take a while don't they.

If you think this hurts, can you imagine him in larger denial after being in a relationship or more, prepare yourself for life ahead, ahaha.
 
C.P said:
Stalker/rapist in the making...
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I fail to see how this helps at all.

I apologise if I phrased the OP wrongly, thinking about it now maybe u should have phrased it.... What do I do? Etc etc

But to all the helpful responses thank you, I think I will try to cut contact with her....Its not gonna be easy....especially as I bet she will do her best to make me keep in touch with and talk to her....

Anyways cheers guys much appreciated
 
As I would say to my friends with relationship problem (your/our age)

Cry me a river, build a bridge and get over it. You're young...

:)
Gl
 
You'll be over her in no time buddy, forget about her and move onto someone else / enjoy yourself while you can as you're only 16 :)
 
Go & buy yourself an ice cream, Choosing which ice cream to have will take your mind off her.
 
hellarda said:
hi guys,

Just wondering if someone can give me an opinion hear.

basically i met this girl on holiday in greece last year, nothing happened in greece, nothing out of the ordinary, this was august last year.

in about mid november we started texting and i found out she lives about 2 hours away from me. weve been getting pretty close recently, and the only reason were not going out is cos of the distance...
she sed she really likes me and i really like her too.

however on saturday she went to a friends for a sleepover and ended up doing stuff with a guy there (that apparently she has liked for a while but not told me)

she is now telling me that she doesnt want to be anything more than friends and ive said to her that that would be really hard on me because i like her so much having to only think of her as friend would (and does) really hurt me.

and now shes getting annoyed with me because i cant accept that she just wants to be friends with me now :( and we've been arguing since monday and i havent slept since then :(

what do you think i should do? am in the wrong here?

sorry if this sounds stupid :/

im only 16 and really dont know what to do....

cheers

ali
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Man up and go to College.
 
[FnG]magnolia;18685118 said:
1. Sever contact.
2. Block her from bookface, msn and whatever else you crazy kids use to communicate with these days.
3. Find girl who actually wants to be with you and won't dick you about.
4. Be awesome.

There, [FnG]magnolia's 4 step plan to getting over girls who just are not worth it. And God I wish I'd known this when I was 16 :)
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This, basically you formed an emotional attachment we she quite harshly severed so your feelings I think are quite justified. She isn't much good to you as a friend so follows magnolia's 4 step plan!
 
One more vote for the 4 step plan!

2 hours away is too far anyway dude, who needs that distance? Go find pasty closer to home!

And yeah man, 16? Dude, do not fear! Seems bad but its not, everything will be fine, you are young, go and get your freak on with many many many young girls!
 
Im guessing this is probably the first girl he's ever kissed or something, and the fumble stuff was all BS, Id say a lot of us have done a similar thing and gone mental over a girl cause were desperate.
No advice is going to help really cause he's 16 and they don't listen.
Probably best to go into your room dude and do some cranking ;)
 
Gimp +1 LOL

Accept the situation for what it is. Arguing will only push her away further. Accept that she wants to be friends, move on, and send the occasional text, but never read into the texts too much.
 
Doesn't sound like you were ever an item, so I'm not sure what the big fuss is. You're 16 though, and we've all been there. Life goes on, and there's plenty more out there for you (even if it feels like there isn't, right now).

Remember, though: A Fleshlight will NEVER tell you it just wants to be friends. ;)
 
She's not worth it at that age, this is when they are at their worst for things like this, sadly I think we are at our worst for getting hopes hooked to high at that age too, from my own experience anyway. :D You'll soon realise she's not worth it and probably feel sorry for her.
 
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