Saberu's guide to Pulling on the dancefloor

Saberu said:
2) When not dancing with a girl dance with your wingman (aka friend), if you do this in a similar way to how you'd dance with a girl it makes girls notice and perhaps give them a laugh so they may like you for it. I was doing this wrong cos i'd just dance near my friend without doing anything like that to show off, you may notice girls dance seductively with their friends all the time to show off as a means of attracting guys to them that they want to dance with.

You might want to rethink this one, - I can confirm that it will only effect only drunk girls, and men

However if wanting either then not a problem, for best effect use early on and don't overdo it, seen it work many a time.
 
Sorry I should have explain better, kino means kinosthetics :)

Replies to this thread have been pretty much as expected. Anyone who actually found my guide useful obviously wouldn't admit it. Maybe people might understand what i'm on about now that i've explained that shorthand word lol.
 
Arcade Fire said:
I keep meaning to get that book and read it, because some part of me can't quite believe that you can simply follow a recipe to pick up girls.

My Brother bought it and I tried reading it, I hated the author, he obviously was some freaky little guy with nothing better to do that just devote his whole life to pulling women. And all he teaches really is lie, lie, lie about everything, learn a cmagic trick and try to pull women with it, be arrogant, play a little hard to get, and "its a numbers game" try as many women as possible. - There you go you dont need to read the book now. Its utter bull****!
 
Saytan said:
my formula is as follows

whack your todger yout and say

"let's go back to mine and have noisy monkey sex"

if this doesnt work, say "dont **** with me, i'm the big dog"

then spend 2 weeks following her everywhere she goes and sleeping in the bushes outside her house.

putty in your hands.


Is that from a TV show or film, i swear one of my mates has said that before, those exact words, unless you are him.
 
Arcade Fire said:
I keep meaning to get that book and read it, because some part of me can't quite believe that you can simply follow a recipe to pick up girls.

I dunno, maybe rule of thumb. The question is what you look for in a girl, this guide is for puilling on the dancefloor rather than finding a long-term partner on the dancefloor.

I think most relationships can be thought of as prettty basic, most people dont know how to play the game because they invest too much of what they want in the situation. This can be evidenced by all the "what should I do" threads on OcUK - most of those have simple solutions.
 
Chrisp7 said:
lol! Erm basically guys, this is copied from the book "The Game". :p So you thought of all thay by yourself? "Wingman" "Pivot" "Kino" ;)

Excuse me? Have you actually read The Game?

The terms you mention above I use because they are widely used in the seduction community. Neil Strauss doesn't mention dancing in his book AFAIK.
This guide is soley of my own making using both my experience plus some advice from others. Having read your other post I don't think you have read it, it's not BS as the theory behind it has helped me with pickup considerably.

Even though your post was supposed to be critical ironically it seems to be the only post which places value on my guide heh so thats something :)

Oh CBS good reply again :) I would have said something similar but don't want to offend anyone :p
 
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Saberu said:
Excuse me? Have you actually read The Game?

The terms you mention above I use because they are widely used in the seduction community. Neil Strauss doesn't mention dancing in his book AFAIK.
This guide is soley of my own making using both my experience plus some advice from others.

Even though your post was supposed to be critical ironically it seems to be the only post which places value on my guide heh so thats something :)

As I mentioned above I tried reading it, thought it was a load of old cobblers so stopped. LOL when you mention the 'seduction community' it really does sound like a group of very very sad men whose only goal is to pull women with whatever means possible - ie being a complete fraud.

And by the way the only way I linked it to the book was from the language, not the content.;) The part that tells you basically 'how to touch someone', its pretty letchworthy to be honest apart from that its all pretty obvious stuff really.
 
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cleanbluesky said:
I dunno, maybe rule of thumb. The question is what you look for in a girl, this guide is for puilling on the dancefloor rather than finding a long-term partner on the dancefloor.
I don't think that book really focuses on long-term relationships at all - from what I hear, it's more about getting a shag at the end of the night.

I think most relationships can be thought of as prettty basic, most people dont know how to play the game because they invest too much of what they want in the situation. This can be evidenced by all the "what should I do" threads on OcUK - most of those have simple solutions.
Haha, spot on. With most of the 'dilemmas' you read about on here it's really, really obvious what you should do. Sadly, the best answer is normally 'stop being such a pansy' which is unfortunately also one of the hardest to implement.
 
Chrisp7 said:
Its all pretty obvious stuff really.

To you maybe but a lot of people really don't get it till they get experience or it's explained to them, I was one of them and made this guide through a mix of both those things.

Arcade Fire your right the whole theory revolves around SBAP but this is very difficult for some people and a structured routine for doing pickup helps them build the confidence to do it.
 
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lol at seduction community forums! Oh the cheese. Check this out:p

I was at this club the other day with one of my mates. Anyway, I'm
scouting around for chicks and my mate comes up to me and conversation goes
as follows...
He said "You got to come and have a crack at this chick."
I said "Why?"
He said "I've just had a crack at her and she burnt me."
I said "Why'd she burn you?"
He said "She told me she had a boyfriend"
Always wanting to out do my mate and show him how it's done...
I said "Ok, show me where she is, I'll have a crack."
I followed my mate to the dance floor and he pointed her out to me. Not
bad, a 7 on the Richter scale. The dance floor wasn't too busy, so there
was no obstruction to my view and she was right over the other side of the
dance floor, probably a good 20 feet away.
Anyway, I looked directly at her and pointed to her until she noticed me
pointing. When she saw me pointing she looked at me and did the 'Who me?'
self point. I nodded my head 'yes' and motioned for her to come over to me.
She came over to me and my opening line was...
I said "I heard that you've got a boyfriend."
She said "What me? No, he is just a friend"
I said "So that means you're open for options?"
She nodded yes. With that I grabbed the waist of her jeans and pulled her
close to me and kissed her, full open mouth, tongues, etc.
As easy as that. What do you guys think?
 
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Saberu said:
And yes Stafford campus has a nasty ratio of 10:1 of guys:girls or something. Though I don't go clubbing in SU hardly at all, I go in town which is more like 3:2 ratio.

Yeh tell me about it.....

Which clubs you go in down town? - can't believe there is a 3:2 ratio anywhere in Stafford.... :p
 
All sounds about right to be honest...in other words don't be a pussy but don't be an idiot either :p

Just don't forget to actually do the pulling while dancing! Look down, give her the eye contact for a couple of seconds, then *SHAPOW* start tongue-fighting :D

Then move on and go to the next girl...lol
 
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