Saberu's guide to Pulling on the dancefloor

Rich_L said:
All sounds about right to be honest...in other words don't be a pussy but don't be an idiot either :p

Just don't forget to actually do the pulling while dancing! Look down, give her the eye contact for a couple of seconds, then *SHAPOW* start tongue-fighting :D

Then move on and go to the next girl...lol
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well, it must be easy when you're ricky martin! ;)

i've never really had much problem, but i know i'm not ugly or anything, i've always found just not been a pansy was the best option and not being phased by her "little games" which she'll throw at you. act as if she's living in YOUR space and she'll want to be part of it

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I always remember one of my friends lines that he said one night. Went like this what he said.

"I've looked into your eyes and seen your a dirty *****, and I want you"

Needless to say it didn't work, but it gave us a good laugh and the girl laughed at it after a bit of a shocked look.

I read years ago that physical touch was one of the best forms of flirtation. Certainly works for me when I go out. Smile and making people laugh also helps.
 
um WTF is the seduction community??

is this a wind up?? does the seduction community use rohipnol by any chance, becuase it sounds like it should.
 
MasterMike said:
MasterMike's guide to pulling on the dancefloor:

1) Drink lots.
2) Find a dancefloor where there are other people who have been drinking lots
3) Repeat until results.

Succesful about half the time.
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4) wake up next to a munter not knowing where the hell you are, how you got there and why theres 2 kids and an angry dog running abouy the place




teesside rules :p
 
andy8271 said:
4) wake up next to a munter not knowing where the hell you are, how you got there and why theres 2 kids and an angry dog running abouy the place




teesside rules :p
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Good times my friend, good times.

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I think what I like about a lot of the ideas in this thread is that they can be so easy to overdo, and if a person attempts to do so without the right intent they can screw it up worse than if they never tried
 
Mana said:
who wants to write a guide: how to get a stripper to sleep with u without paying?

anyone? no? dust?
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Write a cheque that bounces? :p

From that wiki article

Some guys give up everything — school, work, even GFs — to learn to sarge better. But all these things ALLOW you to sarge better, because they make you a more COMPLETE person. A problem I've noticed amongst some of the most dedicated posters here, especially those who got into ASF in their teens or early 20s, is that they have INVENTED themselves through this theory. They are, to some degree, SOCIAL ROBOTS. And, after a great 20 minute set, it begins to show through to an HB ["Hot Babe"] that you don't have anything MORE going for you. The other problem with being a social robot is that you start to think that everyone else around you is one too, and begin to read TOO MUCH into their actions. [34][
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So true....some of the most avid 'Game' fans are some of the most boring people I've ever spoken to, they're freakin' obsessed by it, everything in life is a neg, or opening a set. Weird folk :p
 
Guys if you don't believe this stuff, I'd advise you to read this month's FHM. It has a feature article on the School of Seduction, featuring two of my good friends Adam (AFC AdamLondon) and Tom (TomCat).

One of the most important things to remember is to just go out and have fun. Be a sociable guy, be funny. If you're having fun socialising, even if you don't pull you can have a good night making new friends. If you derive your self worth entirely from pulling women, you're doing something wrong.

Chrisp7 said:
Its utter bull****!
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I take it you don't know any people that do this regularly or have tried anything like this?

BTW - the reason for emphasising Kino (touching other people) is that for unconfident guys, touching other people can sometimes be alien to them. Getting people used to doing it naturally, and just being more friendly is most of the battle.
 
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I had a mate who simply said "Hi, do you wanna ****?"

He claims it works 1 in 11 times, simple as that. Apparently his own dad taught him this, although I never understood how the exact strike rate of 1 in 11 came about. Seems strange to pinpoint exactly 1 in 11. But he swore it works. None of that faffing about, just ask straight up.

You're likely to catch something nasty though I suppose.

I also find a seduction community extraordinarly creepy. Either they are permanently unable to score, or they only have one night stands, or they get immediately dumped, or they are cheating. Sad. Otherwise they'd be in relationships and a seduction community wouldn't really exist.
 
The problem with the seduction community seems to be that they are applying what they have learnt in a very narrow vein. Half of these skills can be applied to almost any social situation, which might lead to a person walking around in "pull mode" constantly.

Also, it doesn't take group dynamics into account. 'AMOG'ing your friends isn't neccessarily cool, and can be a sign of weakness if you try too hard at the expense of others.
I also don't think this guide helps if you are trying to pull a specific girl, simply because the amount of attention you would have to pay her would backfire unless you manage to score with her.
 
cleanbluesky said:
Also, it doesn't take group dynamics into account. 'AMOG'ing your friends isn't neccessarily cool, and can be a sign of weakness if you try too hard at the expense of others.
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The community from what I've seen abhors people who AMOG their friends, the people I know (including myself) won't AMOG strangers let alone friends, unless ofcourse the stranger AMOG's you first. AMOG'ing is for chumps IMO. My general rule in life is friends before girls anyway.

An example of a really lame AMOG some guy did on me, it was me and him chatting to this girl and after i'd won her attention over (not using MM here btw) the other guys mates would come and turn me around and be all like "hey mate"; social etc for the sole purpose of blocking me out, this happened like 3 times in a row. So knowing how to combat things like this does help, I won't explain what a good way to combat that example is here though.

CBS there's a certain theory called Mystery Method which is soley designed around group dynamics to pull a girl in said group, so I'd say it definitely does take it into account.

As for pulling a specific girl, approaches are used on your "next target" so to speak so theres always a specific in mind, unless ofcourse you have multiple immediate targets at once! Theres no reason why this can't be applied to finding a girl for an LTR either, it's all about approaching whether you want a one night stand or a # close.

As for being applied to any social situations, I completely agree it's all about social psychology in the end.
 
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banja said:
I also find a seduction community extraordinarly creepy. Either they are permanently unable to score, or they only have one night stands, or they get immediately dumped, or they are cheating. Sad. Otherwise they'd be in relationships and a seduction community wouldn't really exist.
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You'd be surprised. I know guys that have come from long term relationships, and are now onto open relationships with multiple women... It's really not quite as sad as you'd think, and the amount of networking possible is extraordinary.

Like I said, the sceptics should really read the FHM article...


cleanbluesky said:
The problem with the seduction community seems to be that they are applying what they have learnt in a very narrow vein. Half of these skills can be applied to almost any social situation, which might lead to a person walking around in "pull mode" constantly.

Also, it doesn't take group dynamics into account. 'AMOG'ing your friends isn't neccessarily cool, and can be a sign of weakness if you try too hard at the expense of others.
I also don't think this guide helps if you are trying to pull a specific girl, simply because the amount of attention you would have to pay her would backfire unless you manage to score with her.
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CBS - you're right. Skills learnt from these various guides can indeed be applied to pretty much every social situation. In face, NLP is widely used in business training in various settings: to help people become better leaders, to help people increase their sales, to help people become better negotiators to name three. The crux of the issue is that being a fun, friendly, interesting, sociable person encourages more people to like you, irregardless of played out routines and lines.
 
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