Wow, never thought this thread would become such a great source of inspiration and help, brings a tear to my eye it does
Here's my story:
Never finished my education in South Africa and moved to Holland when I was 15. Being a 15yo African in a high school meant bullying, lots and lots of bullying, so I started biting back and eventually got kicked out of school for fighting.
Joined
this company and started an apprenticeship as a pipefitter and boilermaker. Off topic, best company I ever worked for and I have many, many regrets about burning my bridges there, so remember folks, if you have a good company that treats you well, then treat them well back.
I got fired after 4 years mainly due to drug abuse and spent the next year bouncing between companies but never really settling, this was probably the worst time of my life as I had no purpose, no drive, no motivation. Getting kicked out of Schermer hit me hard.
Eventually moved to London and started moving office furniture for £50 a day. Lasted a few months but was also just rubbish work, no progression, no career, not even a tax code, so I had to look further.
I was walking around at London Bridge one day handing out CVs when I walked past
PRS who were then based there (they're now on Alie street in the City, still in touch with them) and checked out some of their jobs in their shop window, not realising that this was a very pivotal point in my life. I saw what jobs they had, what was needed, and that was that. I walked in, had a chat, gave them a CV and they started looking for work for me.
Eventually I started working in the building maintenance game which although isn't glorious, was earning decent money and I was working for actual, proper companies, not mickey-mouse fly-by-night jobbies who would disappear at the slightest hint of a tax man.
I spent the next 2 years bouncing between various companies doing loads of short work, holiday cover, etc. This was probably the most interesting time of my life as I got to work in some incredibly interesting places and see behind the scenes of places most can only dream of. Including Wembley Arena (saw loads of events there too, including Race of Champions, Tina Turner concert, etc. We often sat in David Beckham's box when it was quiet and he wasn't there, but don't tell him, I don't think he'd like it). Other places include Brixton Prison (yes, amongst the inmates and in their cells and everything), Tower of London, 10 Piccadilly (biggest underground vault Ive ever seen, belonged to a 1920s Post Office which was there at the time, also had a small defunct underground rail system for post), and many more. Extremely interesting, would do it again.
Then I started settling, first with Spie Matthew Hall (2 years), then with Integral (4 years), then with BTFS (Bt's attempt at a maintenance company, godawful place to work, great if you want to sit on your arse and play videogames all day) and now CBRE, formerly known as Norland (which I worked for at Wembley and swore never to work for again, weird how the world does that), for the last 3 years.
CBRE have treated me well, sent me on various training courses, promoted me, and generally looked after me. I should point out that this was an area manager that's since left. The new one is a lovely guy but a bit wet behind the ears so the investment in me has ground to a halt. I manage a team of 8, running a £650m building in the square mile with some of the highest profile clients in the world. It's tough, it's demanding, it can get extremely busy and it can drive me up the wall but at the end of the day I have a fantastic team and love what I do. If it weren't for certain people within my circles of employment I'd love my job but some folks just seem to want to make life hell for everyone else which can leave a bit of a sour taste at the end of the day but you get them everywhere so I can't complain too much about that.
Including overtime I earn over £50k but it does take quite a bit of OT to achieve that (I don't mind the OT that much, although I'd like to start winding down a bit).
That said, I am always open to new ideas as I don't want to stagnate. I have various recruitment companies always on the lookout for me and even though I keep my criteria rather specific as I don't want to leave for another crap job, I do get something put before me once a week or so, and this is the interview I'm going to next week:
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Sounds like a decent one, money's good, with OT I could probably push past £65-£70k depending on how things work out, but I'll only know once I've been to the interview.
//I'm also doing a degree in engineering at the Open University which combined with my working hours is
hard, but worth it. I've got a thing in my head where I have to outdo everyone on my father's side of the family as they're all judgemental people who ask what your job is before your name. There's a lot behind this I won't bore you with but suffice to say I'm fairly close to earning more than most of them at 34 years old and want to be more educated than them as well (this isn't anything against them, although I don't like them much, this is more my motivation, someone once said to me "people without motivation achieve nothing, so find what motivates you and go at it", well, this is my motivation and I'm going for it).
EDIT: Just to add to all of this, you don't need cushy safety nets or fall backs to achieve anything in life. I came to London with £600 cash and a suitcase. I have no parents to move in to if it goes wrong, my mother isn't well off so asking for money isn't an option. I have no safety nets, if I mess it all up I'm sleeping on a bench, simple as that. It took severe determination and an iron will to get to where I am today but it worked and I very firmly believe that anyone can do it.
I genuinely hope others can do the same, I've literally gone from living in a caravan in someone's back yard in a crap country to living in a nice 2bed penthouse in the financial capital of the world with more to look forward to than anyone in my family ever has. If anyone wants to have a chat or wants some recommendations in to getting in to this line of work (which is easy I should add, I've helped a few folks off the dole who are all earning £30k+ now) please get in touch, I'm more than happy to help