I wonder if anyone can point me back in the right direction here, because I have actually encountered a counter-argument to leaving I wasn't expecting.
The central over-riding thing for me has always been that the EU is undemocratic, some would even say anti-democratic. I've kind of taken it as read this whole time that this is a bad thing, and overrides all economic concerns.
The counter-argument attacks the foundation of my position, and says that democracy sucks. It has failed. For example, democracy is the reason New Orleans was left to twist after that hurricane (they don't vote republican, so the republican controlled government at the time didn't lift a finger to help them). The EU, being more technocratic than democratic, is free to do what's right, instead of what'll earn them more votes.
This argument makes me uneasy, but I'm finding it hard to articulate why without feeling like a bit of a conspiracy nut. The idea that important decisions are taken by people we don't know and don't have any kind of control over just seems... horrible. But that's not a good explanation.
Of course, the EU's track record of "doing what's right" is hardly beyond reproach. CAP is universally decried by everyone except France as being a terrible idea, for example. The Euro wasn't properly thought through, and has resulted in significant human misery. But even if we accept that the EU is this big benevolent progressive force for Good in the world, the fact that the people in charge never have to explain themselves to the public makes me worry that this won't always be the case. There's nothing to stop the rich and powerful from installing their corporate lackeys into positions of power to benefit themselves at the cost of the public. Is that too paranoid a thing to think?