Democracy not big among you lot is it.
The EU is the most democratic international organisation on the face of the planet. How many representatives do you elect to NATO? The IMF? The WTO? Oh, yes, that would be none, wouldn't it?
Is the EU perfectly democratic? No, it isn't, but to make it perfectly democratic you'd have to override the sovereignty of the nations who make it up, and I don't think you want that either, do you? And, as much as the EU is undemocratic, so is the UK. IIRC correctly, more people vote for UKIP in the last election than voted for the SNP, yet UKIP have exactly one MP while the SNP have over fifty. The house of Lords is entirely unelected, yet contains members that absurdly bash the EU for being "undemocratic". What is it the Bible says? Oh yes*, "[a]nd why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?"
Also, there is this fantasy that the EU control Britain; it's complete nonsense. On every important issue - housing, taxation, benefits, education, etc. - the UK government has far more control than the EU. The EU, despite protestations, almost entirely concerns itself with matter of the single market. And on these minor issues, the EU does a fantastic job; it's on the major issues it fails but on these major issues it's failings can almost invariably be traced to the craptastic nature of the national governments. The treatment of Greece should be an embarrassment to the EU, but it wasn't "unelected bureaucrats" that decided that, it was nationally elected politicians and, in particular, Angela Merkel, who would much rather trash her own country's economy than show even a shred of solidarity with the Greek people.
* - by the power of Google, I invoke ye!