I did the upgrade to iOS 5, after making sure to do a full backup to iTunes.
iOS 5 installed, and then restored my backup to the iPhone. Then it rebooted the iPhone and iTunes came up with a "iTunes was interrupted. Do you want to continue restore?" so I did so. Then it came up with "Restore failed, error -34".
Did the restore again but when it rebooted saying it was interrupted I hit cancel. Now it appears to have backed up itself in it's half-restored state overwriting the backup I manually did earlier

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Goodbye all the texts and couple of thousand photos I had from my 3G & 3GS & 2nd 3GS & iPhone 4

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