The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread

Nothing serious, only 3 weeks. Still, kind of sucks. :p

I decided to prioritise on my businesses, friends and my daughter - just don't have the time for seeing someone too. She couldn't accept that I don't have every night free to hang out.

:)
 
Clov!s said:
Even a short relationship is still a relationship, so no matter how long you were together, it can still suck when it ends :)

Ah, was there much of an age difference between you two?
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4 days, so not really. :p

TaKeN said:
Get back together with your Ex?
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This is who it was, my first ex. Thought it might work out this time. Just wasn't feeling it, so was best to end it now rather than drag it on.

If you mean I should sort things with my ex of 2 years I broke up with a few months ago... not sure it's on the cards really. We'd have a lot of differences to sort.

Naffa said:
It sounds as if there was a significant mental one, if not physical, as well. :p
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Oi! :p
 
Megahurtz400 said:
Here's my input lol.

Split up with my girlfriend of a year last weekend, it was on the cards and it was for the best as i'm moving abroad next year. Decided that I really don't want another relationship for a good while as i've been in one pretty much since I was 16,

But since breaking up with her, i've just found myself being bored and lonely when i'm not seeing friends and stuff.

Literally just come in from work, am shattered so can't be bothered to do much, but within 5 minutes im just sitting refreshing Facebook and OcUK over and over again, just need to vent really and ask for any tips on dealing with being mind bogglingly bored :(

Also,

There's a few ladies i'm talking to at the moment, but as said earlier, I don't really want to be in a relationship, but would like to get to know them better etc, what's the best way to approach this situation. This doesn't meant I just want to pound and run, if anything it's the opposite cause they're just my type lol :p

fml.
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As much as we used to argue on here (under my old username, many years ago) my situation actually mirrors yours - word for word. It's like reading what's in my head apart from the abroad bit.

Hope you sort it mate.
 
Haha, I used to be a bit of a **** back then, we were as bad as each other. Don't worry about it, sorry too. :p

I always miss that when in a relationship - being able to go and do what I want, when I want.

If I have some funds I'll come for a beer sometime, haha. Only a few hours away. :p
 
Megahurtz400 said:
Yeah deffo, but when i'm single, I really miss the gay things, like having someone to text and someone to just chill with and do nothing :o

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Example, I well fancy going to the zoo with an attractive lady, cause it's always a nice day but I feel like it's too much of a coupley thing to do, i'm clueless :confused:

Might just make Miniclip online pool my new mistress :p


Also, we both signed up nearly 5 years ago o.O
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I know what you mean, you can't do the same stuff when you're single. Sucks :(

5 years?! Oh wow, now I feel old.
 
Fuzz said:
Yea I misread it to start with, had already posted the reply before I noticed what you actually meant. :o
I don't do going out and getting wasted anyway (gave that up when I nearly didn't wake up one morning after back in my teens)

I've got someone in mind already anyway, not that I'll be chasing it up at all for a while yet as they know what the situ is, but we will meet regularly at an event I go to monthly anyway, so no bother. ;) ;)
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With all due respect, I've met you and you're a ****ing legend. :p

Her loss!
 
Fuzz said:
I am pinning my hopes on it being just the mental "illness" that she will pull through.
I've got to try and be there for her at the time she needs me the most, despite the fact she's doing everything in her power to throw it all down the drain.
She's not seeing anyone else at least, she's just gone into self destruct.
Going to be a **** Christmas is all I can say at the moment.
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Why are you letting a woman ruin Christmas? She'd be in the bin by now!

Saying that, crazy girls are absolutely awesome in the sack.
 
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