The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread
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Man of Honour
Not that I know of
5UB TO THE RESCUE.
You never did email me back. I was overseas defending our territory and you didn't have the heart to return my message
Cold hearted witch!
I suppose I should weigh in now it's taken off.
I broke up with my partner of 2 years just over a month ago officially, although it was over for a lot longer than that - we just stayed together for our daughter's sake.
I'm now seeing a lovely new girl who accepts my past and takes me for who I am, so nomatter how bad it gets there's always hope guys.
I broke up with my partner of 2 years just over a month ago officially, although it was over for a lot longer than that - we just stayed together for our daughter's sake.
I'm now seeing a lovely new girl who accepts my past and takes me for who I am, so nomatter how bad it gets there's always hope guys.
Soldato
thats good to hear, that you found someone else. i was in the same situation, we stayed together for nearly a year even though we knew it was over for the sake of the kids, but at the end of the day, we wanted different things.
now its over, its terrible. i cant help thinking about all the 'what ifs' that could have maybe stopped it from ending. but i dont think thats healthy. just so hard to move on.
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Man of Honour
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind? Where can I redeem these 10 points
Good job! Points are redeemable at your nearest "Go **** yourself" branch
Ive been split from my girlfriend of 18months just over a week now and it feels like i have lost everything in my life because ive lost her.
Maybe i am the sort of person who attaches themselves to their partner, but while i was with her, we had a great relationship, never ever argued, trusted each other 100%, but she came to the conclusion she wasnt ready to settle down so said we should be friends, since we split weve seen each other 3-4 times, text most days, were pretty much absolute best friends but sadly with none of the benefits
Maybe i am the sort of person who attaches themselves to their partner, but while i was with her, we had a great relationship, never ever argued, trusted each other 100%, but she came to the conclusion she wasnt ready to settle down so said we should be friends, since we split weve seen each other 3-4 times, text most days, were pretty much absolute best friends but sadly with none of the benefits
DON'T MAKE ME LAUGH!!
Can I haz hugs?
Soldato
I used to weigh almost 23 stone and no woman would look at me and rightly so, it's actually fairly amusing how invisible you feel as a really overweight person despite being so big!
I'm 14 stone now and still losing weight, but I still think like a fat person which is going to take a good long while to change I think, so in short I'm pretty doomed when it comes to relationships right now.
The only girl I've liked recently used the old "you're a really nice guy but.." line on me, then told me she actually likes guys who are around 15-17 years older than she is, she's only 21. Daddy issues I think.
I'm 14 stone now and still losing weight, but I still think like a fat person which is going to take a good long while to change I think, so in short I'm pretty doomed when it comes to relationships right now.
The only girl I've liked recently used the old "you're a really nice guy but.." line on me, then told me she actually likes guys who are around 15-17 years older than she is, she's only 21. Daddy issues I think.
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*HUGS* for everyone who can't get a boyfriend/girlfriend, too lazy to try or just damn ugly! Lots of heart for you people.
Man of Honour
lol no hugz for you fatty
Soldato
+1
Im in the same dilemma...totally and utterly love being single and the sense of freedom is just immense. But sometimes...yea....wish I had company.
Oh well cant have everythin huh
Right, back to picking a HD7870
I assume they mean freedom to meet other girls...
Im currently on a 'break'
from my girl...although our relationship is a lot more complicated as she lives on the other side of the world...and to be honest if she lived in the UK I would definately be looking to marry her in the future as I absolutely love her. Things are not good though..she basically said she didn't want to talk to me at all for a month to see how it is on a proper break, as before we still carried on talking most days. SO I'm not holding much hope for when we do finally talk again in a week or 2...On one side if this is the end of it, my holiday money I was planning to use to go and see her will instead be used for a trip to Thailand with a few friends
. But on the flip side, life just isn't the same without her next to me Aye I know the feeling...
Can sorta understand that she'd been questioning it for a while but it really doesn't make it any better when she's moved on within weeks.
Soldato
Just got out of a relationship, we had been living together the last 6 months. **** her, cos someone else probably already is.