The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread

theDude said:
My turn!

I've been seeing a girl for about 6 months, we currently live about 30 miles apart and at the moment I am driving up 2-3 times a week to see her and previously to that she was driving to mine every weekend. Its a bit annoying but I don't think too much about it, its 38 minutes away down the motorway and to me nothing.. she dislikes the distance a great deal.

So... in September I am moving back South for Uni, so its going to be an extra hour between us and she is currently being a bit weird.

She doesn't really kiss me or interact as much, sex has gone right down the pan and seems a bit distant.. This has been since I received my uni offers and I think its become more real to her.

I asked her about it after she asked me to move out of the way of the TV when I tried to give her a cuddle on the sofa and I was a bit miffed as I had just driven there to comfort her over something she was upset about..

anyway she says she she just isn't bothered at the moment about physical things and I managed to get out of her that it may be down to the uni thing on her mind, I said well, you have two choices really.. you decide to stay with me and give it a go or we break up... in the mean time we drift further apart and break up anyway because she is being weird and its annoying me.

anyway, I guess its doomed.
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she is getting tapped by someone else. Get out now before its too late............
 
J.B said:
I know this sounds horrible but a similar situation happened to me before uni and looking back now I wish I'd cut her loose. The first year of university is the best time to be single! I know it's a cliché thing to say but there is a lot of truth in it.

I'm not saying every relationship is going to be doomed when people go to uni but if she's like this now it's probably only going to get worse!
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Indeed, I fought my way through a long distance relationship for first year of uni and it was a complete error. Cut your losses, and be single for first year of uni... the soppy long term relationship can come the years after that :)
 
I have finally fallen for another girl since coming out of my last relationship just over four years ago. In two weeks, I am moving back to the UK and she is moving back to... Quebec.

-.-

:(
 
Naffa said:
I have finally fallen for another girl since coming out of my last relationship just over four years ago. In two weeks, I am moving back to the UK and she is moving back to... Quebec.

-.-

:(
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Get your arse over to Quebec then :p Canada is an amazing country and if you are serious about the girl.. why not!
 
Nothing serious, only 3 weeks. Still, kind of sucks. :p

I decided to prioritise on my businesses, friends and my daughter - just don't have the time for seeing someone too. She couldn't accept that I don't have every night free to hang out.

:)
 
mattyprice4004 said:
Nothing serious, only 3 weeks. Still, kind of sucks. :p

I decided to prioritise on my businesses, friends and my daughter - just don't have the time for seeing someone too. She couldn't accept that I don't have every night free to hang out.

:)
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Even a short relationship is still a relationship, so no matter how long you were together, it can still suck when it ends :)

Ah, was there much of an age difference between you two?
 
Clov!s said:
Even a short relationship is still a relationship, so no matter how long you were together, it can still suck when it ends :)

Ah, was there much of an age difference between you two?
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4 days, so not really. :p

TaKeN said:
Get back together with your Ex?
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This is who it was, my first ex. Thought it might work out this time. Just wasn't feeling it, so was best to end it now rather than drag it on.

If you mean I should sort things with my ex of 2 years I broke up with a few months ago... not sure it's on the cards really. We'd have a lot of differences to sort.

Naffa said:
It sounds as if there was a significant mental one, if not physical, as well. :p
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Oi! :p
 
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