Haven't seen anyone creaming anything over Elite for some time now
Comparing it to NMS seems a bit nonsensical however. They share so little apart from the fact you have a spaceship. In NMS you are basically God, or at least the centre of the narrative- you craft your own environment and make everything happen. In Elite you are intentionally an insignifcant speck trying to scrape a living in the middle of a vast, sparse and realistically empty Galaxy.
As an immersive showcase for VR, Elite trumps NMS in every respect. As a randomised sandbox you can pick up and have things happen in short play sessions, NMW wins. (I like both, but they are chalk and cheese). The scale of Elite in VR still takes my breath away occasionally, even after playing for years. NMS is very busy, and for me feels often very claustrophobic in comparison.
On the subject of Odyssey, I have no interest in FPS style combat. The ability to explore a station and have a grounded presence outside your spacecraft does appeal however- It's one of the facets of Star Citizen that attracts me (never played it mind).