He probably has very severe mental health problems or is so ludicrously rich that to him £20K is like 20p to the ordinary person (although he probably still has issues with mental health even then).See, I have absolutely zero sympathy for anyone who would be as colossally as stupid as that. 20 grand to give someone a hug... Even if he got the full shellacking for a quarter of that I'd still consider them an absolute moron.
If you're paying for anything then surely you realise it's nothing more than a business engagement/contract.
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But how is the content creator supposed to know that? They're in the business of making money and extracting as much cash from whoever wants their services. Are we seriously expecting content creators to perform mental health checks on their customers?
Then you get people offering to pay to drink bath water. I think it's less mental health issues and more that young men are forgetting how to communicate with women or they have lofty aspirations of what they feel like they deserve so they spend their time looking at eye candy. I don't know if you use Snapchat but they've, for some time now, show a lot of popular accounts. Occasionally you'll see a pretty attractive thirst-trap on there and they'll just show the messages they get from guys. To say it's anything short of pathetic would be an understatement.
Asking for pics of feet, calling them mummy, saying how they'd do anything for them etc and just get a response of 'aww cute'.
It just blows my mind.
I wouldn't put it past some enthusiastsCulminating in someone furiously rubbing their junk on a 4090 for a happy ending?
.That should lie with the platform not the creators IMO, or even the user's bank should be going WTF.
They pull me up whenever I try to get a couple of grand out in cash and make sure I'm not being scammed but I don't think there are any checks going on here.
I mean, it's their money but who knows, maybe a phone call from the bank might help them reconsider. Especially in the case of someone who isn't a millionaire just throwing their life savings away for example - that should get alarm bells ringing.
Its a really difficult subject and same with alcoholism etc.
At what point do you step on free choice (which I hate) vs protecting vulnerable people.
It'll never be perfect.
Look at cigarettes. We are on cusp of banning it for anyone not able to smoke now with the age range. It is against free will. But it's something many (including me) agree with m as its addictive and people can't stop themselves.
It'll always be a balance here
Personal responsibility is an important trait
I think maybe two different things are being conflated there - raising the pension age impacts the state pension which isn't based on contributions but is a defined benefit scheme based on qualifying years. Investments in a private pension are still there changing the state pension age doesn't change the fact you have £X in your private pension pot.
As I said, we'll have to agree to disagree because I really don't agree with your stance on it.
I really disagree with the whole vulnerable angle. Of course, there will be some truly vulnerable people but the vast majority are going to be simpy and thirsty guys thinking they can buy the workers affection.
At some point we all have to look at ourselves and decide if our actions are sensible and take some responsibility for our actions.
I know one who does it. Though not in the same way mentioned above.
She earns a LOT, but it comes with problems, e.g. not able to get a mortgage as it's not seen as a regular/legit employment. She has to have her partner put his name to everything.
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same with streamers and youtubers
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People also want a job they can enjoy, and being paid to have orgasms while staring at a camera does, on the surface, sound pretty enjoyable... Or would you rather juggle a load of spreadsheets so that some company exec can get paid millions as a result of you sorting out their problems for them?
Only because you're only going half-assed. People pay to watch hideous people doing hideous things.Not that anyone would pay to watch me sticking a hairbrush where the sun doesn't shine
If you can imagine it, there will be people who'll pay for it.
It's not as if men don't take advantage of vulnerable women, either.
This one?
Struggling mum living off food stamps now making £100,000 a month
Rebecca Goodwin and her family lived on food vouchers which provided five days of food before she decided to start an OnlyFans page to help provide for her kids
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A more worrying aspect is the FOMO side of, "I have to, because all my friends do". My kids will eventually want mobile phones and access to TikTok, Farcebook, Instagram and all that other *****, and may potentially face serious social disadvantages if they don't get it.
A lot of men have always been this pathetic. I'd go so far as to they the majority of men are generally quite simp-ish when it comes to women. Even the more manly testosterone-laden ones catcalling are pretty ******* pathetic simps, who just haven't realised they're incels.
The extremes of submissive behaviour and the associated mistresses have been around for centuries too, with dominatrices written about as early as Ancient Greece. Rishyasringa, Phyllis and Aristotle, Inanna... loads of examples.
Dominatrices and their establishments were pretty well known by the 1500s, and the advent of photography and other technology just expanded their menu.
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I definitely agree. I really do think I was lucky to have so many female friends, probably more so than male friends at one point. Helped me during my dating years to no end.
What people have as kinks doesn't really bother me. We've all got them. I just hate the way people put it on a pedestal.
They're not that wild, to be honest.
Dated someone who sold breast milk and was on a sort of sugar daddy website for a while. One kind gentleman helped pay for our hotel in Amsterdam, thanks buddy!
Chronic tinder swiper for a while and was a sowing my oats
Messed around a swingers site for a number of years - with the stories to tell
Though I am now tame and happily settled down with my partner of almost 7 years. We've all got to grow up eventually I suppose
I definitely agree. I really do think I was lucky to have so many female friends, probably more so than male friends at one point. Helped me during my dating years to no end.
What people have as kinks doesn't really bother me. We've all got them. I just hate the way people put it on a pedestal.
They're not that wild, to be honest.
Dated someone who sold breast milk and was on a sort of sugar daddy website for a while. One kind gentleman helped pay for our hotel in Amsterdam, thanks buddy!
Chronic tinder swiper for a while and was a sowing my oats
Messed around a swingers site for a number of years - with the stories to tell
Though I am now tame and happily settled down with my partner of almost 7 years. We've all got to grow up eventually I suppose
story was titillating.
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If i go on the search button on instagram 90% of the squares are filled attractive scantily clad ladies, i bet most of them have OF.
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I think I'd have to blur out half the squares if posted a screenshot of mine
it isn't even relevant to my activity/interests or friends, etc. on there either.There's been a couple of things with her, one was she was selling cookies and calling people out for 'being broke' for not buying them.
There was a comment in her twitter feed a while back where some window licker was firing money at her and said something like he was making excuses to his gf\wife about why they couldn't go on holiday, because he was throwing money at 'pokimane'. I think there's a screenshot of that in the other thread about onlyfans from a few years back.
Personally I'd find it hilarious if the site went down the crapper just to see them scrambling to try and keep their Simps on the hook. Though there are other sites like OF so might not trouble them too much overall if it did collapse, or they made another ruling about not having porn content which was close to occurring a few years ago.
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Yes but there are safety nets and laws that protect them plus the social outcry and a torrent of support that any woman with a sob story can create.
Men need similar kind of protections from predatory women. You may see those men as pathetic but I see them as vulnerable human beings being exploited.
I bet if you told me your life's story I could easily point out plenty of occasions that you were "pathetic" so don't judge people so easily.
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