I'd remind you of afganistan, syria, gaza, etc.
https://www.theguardian.com/global-...east-22000-civilians-since-911-analysis-finds
We, the west, are not in a position to judge.
Putin doesn't want Ukraine to be a part of Nato, doesn't want things on his borders that could be a threat. He's been complaining about it for years and years and been ignored so he's trying to do something about it.
Is it bad? Hell yes
Do we all wish it could be avoided? Of course
Is UKR a shining beacon of virtue? Absolutely not. They've committed their own crimes against their citizens and stolen money.
Should anyone be arming UKR and encouraging conflict? Nope.
Would a partially neutral UKR be a good compromise to end all this? Quite possibly.
International diplomacy is a tricky beast, it takes considered negotiation not war mongering, there was nearly a decade to discuss this before it got to this but that opportunity was not taken for whatever reason.
Now we get a barrage of misinformation in our media to funnel the overall sentiment towards the situation.
What I find absurd is that everything out of Russia is lies and propaganda and everything on our media is the truth and honest. It works both ways.
People like to be told what to think it seems. Feels safer, means people don't have to think for themselves.