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Well maintaining radio silence didn't work, she delivered the coup de grace via Messenger at 23:46 last night. Fortunately I was asleep.
I won't go into laborious details regarding her message, but it seems that she is selfish, and not wanting to commit herself to being part of someone else's life. I recognise that part of that is on me for being too full on (and needy) too soon, combined with her (now) pretty obvious commitment issues. I guess I should be grateful that it happened this early, rather than any later on when I'd probably gotten in deeper.
Quite a few lessons learned. Thanks for listening guys
Agree apart from the bit where you're being hard on yourself, really does sound like she's got serious commitment issues/selfishness that would make it near enough impossible to be with someone like that. Had she not had those issues, your being forward might have been a positive for her. Onto the next my friend