Soldato
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I have imagined myself to be the wealthy one in such a scenario, I can still see why it would cause the recipient to feel uncomfortable.
I have no reason to doubt the donors motives or that he'd feel good about albert receiving the money and spending it on something that he wants but the donor has to remember that they might be putting the recipient in an awkward position. I didn't think that albert got in touch with his mate expecting anything to come from it except to renew an acquaintance but what you're effectively saying that the wealthy persons whims (however well intentioned) should override those of his friend because he finds it difficult to get a kick out of his money now.
I have considered this from more than one angle and I can understand why it's an issue, as I stated before there's not a right or a wrong answer here but it depends on what albert and his wife feel.
No not at all. Sorry, my reply came across very curt when i didnt mean to.
I totally get what you are saying but i would hope that the fact that they are friends would overcome the awkwardness of accepting the cash.