The very same thought is starting to concern me, I've had a 5960X forever and was set for the 3800X/3900 but it looks like a 9700K easily compete with these possibly more expensive AMD offerings in games. I want to believe but unless AMD rule Arma 3 I'm going to stick with Intel. I didn't expect to be typing this now but I already have a very capable 8 core and I'm doubtful of what Ryzen 3000 can offer me.
Then you never really would consider AMD, that game is single threaded and primary wants more Ghz, and came out well before Zen was even halfway done in development. It has no idea about the CPU topology, and runs around 20-30% slower at similar clocks on AMD compared to Intel.