Im feeling the same, what with the lack of decent servers or players usually end up on a server where no-one does anything with the objective or doing what thier class is supposed to do, examples, played last night, conatiner city on the attacking team, i ran in to repair the bot and noticed a soldier on a container above, so after a few deaths was finally able to repair it, died so ran all the way back and the bot was still in the same position, the soldier didnt move from his camping spot to make the bot move even though he was only a few feet away from it.
Another example, playing as engineer again, on the attacking team, different map, ran in to repair the crane controls, died and didnt release as there was a medic about 10 feet away, waitied for 2 respawn timers to count down and the medic didnt even bother to move from his camping spot