Can't believe I'm doing this...

Doohickey said:
Open question for everyone: how would you feel/what would you do if somehow you found your other half had been looking at porn? (And not the cool kind).

If I'm honest I would be a bit hmmm.... but I don't think I'd be mad about it.
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Really? Why? You look at it, why shouldn't she?

My girlfriend looks at porn, as do I. It doesn't mean that we are cheating on each other or anything like that - it just fantasy and excitement.

My current girlfriend found a folder of naughty picturse of my ex, and was a bit annoyed about it - thinking that I shouldn't have them on there as it suggests I haven't moved on. We discussed the situation like adults, and moved on with our lives. She didn't throw her toys out the pram, and I didn't turn into a absolute wet towel. She's 21.
 
I can certainly relate i have had the same discussions with my missus.. but i am in the wrong ofcourse. she tends to look through my history.. chrome icognito *** :p
 
Ahleckz said:
Really? Why? You look at it, why shouldn't she?

My girlfriend looks at porn, as do I. It doesn't mean that we are cheating on each other or anything like that - it just fantasy and excitement.

My current girlfriend found a folder of naughty picturse of my ex, and was a bit annoyed about it - thinking that I shouldn't have them on there as it suggests I haven't moved on. We discussed the situation like adults, and moved on with our lives. She didn't throw her toys out the pram, and I didn't turn into a absolute wet towel. She's 21.
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Bet you still have the photos. There is not a shadow of doubt in my mind :p
 
Luke said:
Some women cannot get their heads around porn, and no matter what you say or do will never be able to be with you if they know you have watched it.
Keep trying with her, but accept you may be on a road to nowhere unfortunately.
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This ^, my ex-wife was like that to, one day she found a URL link in my history and it linked to regular porn video from one of those steaming sites. Nothing wired about it, just the normal cowgirl position. She acted like i cheated on her or something.

Weirdly enough since my divorce I've dated two Asian girls and they've been really cool about it. They understand that guys need an outlet sometimes when they're not around. But to be fair my current gf keeps me so happy that i rarely need to access porn anymore.
 
Doohickey said:
Open question for everyone: how would you feel/what would you do if somehow you found your other half had been looking at porn? (And not the cool kind).

If I'm honest I would be a bit hmmm.... but I don't think I'd be mad about it.
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I'd be cool about it, at least it shows she has a healthy sexual appetite. Not sure what you mean by not the cool kind but as long as it's not toooo freaky then maybe we'd talk about trying it out ourselves.
 
tbh 99% of men watch porn and the other 1% lie.

it doesn't make you discusting ect... i am very open and honest to my wife and she knows that i watch porn, she has understand there is nothing to it than my own personal fantasy to releive stress when either she's at work/ or that time of month. Doesn't mean i dont love or adore my wife. I heard many stories of gf finding porn on pc, and they say that if they see it again they will leave. Sounds to me as if your gf has low self asteem and confidence issue and seeing that made her worse. talk to her about it and explain that it nothing more than releiving stress, what she gonna do stop you fapping.
 
I had a girlfriend like this at uni, complete psycho - 2 years or not if she cant accept that men like to bash one out once in a while you should get well rid.

my girlfriend at present doesn't even give a damn and why should she.
 
I think she mainly saw the 'normal' pictures of her rather than any of the more naughtier ones at the bottom of the folder. They were in their own folder, in 'My Pictures' directory where I have pictures of other folk, friends, people I stalk, and just pretty stuff so I just explained I had never got round to deleting them or anything.

She has now got her own folder, which is looked at more often so that probably calmed things down a bit ;).
 
Nitefly said:
I'd probably be a lot more miffed (if I was a girl) to find pictures of an ex than random porno pictures, so I don't know how you ironed that out, unless you fibbed and told her they're gone :p
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Yeah i can understand way more if the gf was annoyed if the pictures were of an ex.
 
She sounds like she's had a rather sheltered life so far, I can't really suggest anything apart from ctrl, shift, N ;)
Doohickey said:
Open question for everyone: how would you feel/what would you do if somehow you found your other half had been looking at porn? (And not the cool kind).

If I'm honest I would be a bit hmmm.... but I don't think I'd be mad about it.
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I wouldn't really be bothered if I found my other half watching porn, unless it was some particularly strange stuff. :p
 
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