These are all your opinions though and not fact.
Agreed, other than the lower fuel costs, which is fact (assuming you can charge at home), and based on the rest of your post, the other benefits (for you) outweigh those potential savings.
For me though, your "benefits" are meaningless. I don't care about going for a "spirited" drive, that phase is many years in the past (while I do enjoy the kick from 200hp of instant torque, it's so far down the list of priorities it's barely worth mentioning), I can count on 1 hand the number of trips per year outside the car's range (plus having kids means having to stop multiple times anyway, and it charges quick enough that a toilet break adds an extra 50+ miles).
I want something which is going to get me and my family from A to B safely, comfortably, and with minimal effort, an EV ticks all those boxes perfectly, never needing to waste time visiting a petrol station is lovely, and the fact it also "saves"* me ~£120/month in fuel is just a bonus. So to suggest an ICE, which ticks none of the boxes, and also costs me more, is a bit silly really
* Yes i'm aware I'm effectively paying for most of those "savings" up front in the cost of the vehicle, but since I do more mileage than you it mostly balances out