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I am reluctant to admit this but Foxy has the situation summed up perfectly.[TW]Fox;18665567 said:I'm sure everyone here has made mistakes, but the reason he is getting flak isn't because he has made a mistake, it is because he has made a mistake but is completely convinced it isn't his fault, its all her fault and that the whole thing is completely unjust.
He is completely in the wrong.
An amber traffic light means stop unless doing so would cause an accident. It doesn't mean 'Go on mate, you can make it'. It means stop.
Now, whilst you could argue that it wasn't safe for the woman to stop and it did 'cause' an accident, it only did so because the OP was driving far too close to the car in front and attempting to pass a traffic light which was set to indicate him to stop.
He failed to stop at a traffic light and was travelling too close to the car in front - the result was, he crashed his car.
It is 100% his fault and attempts to convince himself otherwise are why people are quite rightfully having a go at him.
Man up and accept responsibility for your actions. We all make mistakes, but the important thing is to recognise it was YOUR fault and learn from it.
He wont learn from it if he doesn't think it was his fault.
Got to rush, need to wash out my mouth with soap