Soldato
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- 22 Mar 2009
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Hmmm tough one. The way I look at things, if you’re after a relationship, then no matter how nice the personality is, if you’re not attracted to them it isn’t going to work. It might seem shallow, but I could never go out with a girl if I was not physically attracted to her. If I was looking for friends then I wouldn’t care what they look like, but this is, after all, a dating site so looks matter.
I’d personally ask her for a photo as you’ll always be wondering what she looks like when you’re speaking to her
I suppose, way I see it is, builds up my experience in online talking. give it a few days, see how it goes, if its still going ok, will slip it into convo subtly, if not then nothing lost, but experience gained.
agree though, without physical attraction then there is nothing.