Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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I met some a girl for a drink 2 days ago she is Scotish but now lives here in Norfolk she wants to meet me again Friday night for a meal..But iv not heard anything from her within the last 24 hours..

Im Also metting another 1 from fish tonight she,s 35 and has no kids so thats a bouns she seems really nice been chatting for a few days on facebook and phone texts, I have a good feeling about this one :)
 
Gonna ask a nice girl out today, im a bit out of the loop on a first date. Would meeting up for a couple drinks followed by a movie and dinner friday night be good enough. Or should we skip the movie as we wont be able to chat.
 
bakes0310 said:
Gonna ask a nice girl out today, im a bit out of the loop on a first date. Would meeting up for a couple drinks followed by a movie and dinner friday night be good enough. Or should we skip the movie as we wont be able to chat.
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Skip the movie until you know each-other better.
 
bakes0310 said:
Gonna ask a nice girl out today, im a bit out of the loop on a first date. Would meeting up for a couple drinks followed by a movie and dinner friday night be good enough. Or should we skip the movie as we wont be able to chat.
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Just drinks. Think about it, you might want to bail as she could be MENTAL, UGLY, or FAT. You never really know with internet people.

So yes, just meet for a drink but have something in mind in case it's going well. For example, have a place in mind so that if it's going really well you can ask if she's hungry or wants to go and get something to eat, then pick up more discussion from there, and you can maybe find out what films she wants to see - et voila, you have your cinema date sorted too.

Plan, but plan loose. Make sure she doesn't know you have these plans as it's creepy, just say that you know/saw a place. Simples.
 
Richdog said:
Skip the movie until you know each-other better.
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Zefan said:
Just drinks. Think about it, you might want to bail as she could be MENTAL, UGLY, or FAT. You never really know with internet people.

So yes, just meet for a drink but have something in mind in case it's going well. For example, have a place in mind so that if it's going really well you can ask if she's hungry or wants to go and get something to eat, then pick up more discussion from there, and you can maybe find out what films she wants to see - et voila, you have your cinema date sorted too.

Plan, but plan loose. Make sure she doesn't know you have these plans as it's creepy, just say that you know/saw a place. Simples.
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Wow post from the 2 dating gurus:D
I should have been more clear, i didnt meet her online i know her from work. She has made it quite clear that she's physically attracted to me. So i just want her to get to know me.

Edit: Sorry this aint a internet dating question, but it is a dating question. I didnt want to make my own thread as i can see what happens....WingZero.
 
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bakes0310 said:
Wow post from the 2 dating gurus:D
I should have been more clear, i didnt meet her online i know her from work. She has made it quite clear that she's physically attracted to me. So i just want her to get to know me.

Edit: Sorry this aint a internet dating question, but it is a dating question. I didnt want to make my own thread as i can see what happens....WingZero.
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Yea but WingZero is like Jimmy Saville crossed with a male version of overly attached girlfriend.
 
echo the same as others, though maybe not so much on the drinks bit but i'm not a peson who needs drink to open up. what do people usually do, go to some pub, oder a beer and some wine for her and then just chat in the corner for an hour? sounds Zzzz
 
Mammalian said:
echo the same as others, though maybe not so much on the drinks bit but i'm not a peson who needs drink to open up. what do people usually do, go to some pub, oder a beer and some wine for her and then just chat in the corner for an hour? sounds Zzzz
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If you think that going for a drink involves just "ordering a drink and then sitting in a corner for an hour", then yes, no wonder girls find you zzzzzzz. ;)
 
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Mammalian said:
echo the same as others, though maybe not so much on the drinks bit but i'm not a peson who needs drink to open up. what do people usually do, go to some pub, oder a beer and some wine for her and then just chat in the corner for an hour? sounds Zzzz
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If you cant chat to a girl for an hour over a drink without one of you getting bored then I think the relationship probably isnt going to work out anyway.
 
So met a girl in a club (believe it or not) a few weeks ago on my brothers birthday and we hit it off pretty big style that night and then decided to go for a first proper date the following weekend which was great once again, obviously between this there's been quite a lot of txting! Got to this weekend and the plan was to have a night in with some films and stay round hers last night. She was supposed to ring/txt me yesterday early evening after she finished work to say a time for me to come round... I haven't heard anything since and I know she's not been hit by a bus or anything as she's been on her Facebook, but I'm now being ignored :confused:
Not really an internet date, but still shows it's not just online where girls are weird! Seriosly don't know how people can be so evil some times :(
 
NeoReloaded said:
She was supposed to ring/txt me yesterday early evening after she finished work to say a time for me to come round... I haven't heard anything since and I know she's not been hit by a bus or anything as she's been on her Facebook, but I'm now being ignored :confused:
Not really an internet date, but still shows it's not just online where girls are weird! Seriosly don't know how people can be so evil some times :(
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You haven't heard anything or she's ignoring you? There's a difference. What I mean is did you call to ask what time, or have you since then?
 
NeoReloaded said:
So met a girl in a club (believe it or not) a few weeks ago on my brothers birthday and we hit it off pretty big style that night and then decided to go for a first proper date the following weekend which was great once again, obviously between this there's been quite a lot of txting! Got to this weekend and the plan was to have a night in with some films and stay round hers last night. She was supposed to ring/txt me yesterday early evening after she finished work to say a time for me to come round... I haven't heard anything since and I know she's not been hit by a bus or anything as she's been on her Facebook, but I'm now being ignored :confused:
Not really an internet date, but still shows it's not just online where girls are weird! Seriosly don't know how people can be so evil some times :(
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Yeah, that sucks, and pretty rude of her. Trick I learned is that if a girl mugs you off without a very valid and genuine reason (as yours obviously did), then remove her from your phone and from Facebook and move on.

There is zero point keeping them on your phone or checking their activity on Facebook as it just makes you more annoyed and you end up feeling worse. Usually when they see you removed them they will display faux-outrage and message you asking whats up, or making silly excuses, or trying to get a response (her pride is dented that you dared to choose to remove her, guys usually don't do that to her), but unless you are in love with that girl then just ignore and leave your precious dignity intact.

In summary: ALWAYS listen to the little voice inside your head. If you are doing something that doesn't feel right, or she is doing something that makes you feel crap, then it's simply not worth it. Never go crawling back or re-add her because you just give her license to do it all over again, which she almost inevitably will. Just keep in mind: if she gave a **** about you then she would not behave like that. End of.

I now do my best to follow that ethos religiously, and it works.
 
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Zefan said:
You haven't heard anything or she's ignoring you? There's a difference. What I mean is did you call to ask what time, or have you since then?
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She was supposed to call me to tell me a time last night (should have been 6.30ish) and I didnt hear anything so just left it till 10pm last night as not to look too desperate and since then my 2 calls have gone unanswered and so have txts :confused:
 
NeoReloaded said:
She was supposed to call me to tell me a time last night (should have been 6.30ish) and I didnt hear anything so just left it till 10pm last night as not to look too desperate and since then my 2 calls have gone unanswered and so have txts :confused:
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Since you're actually being ignored, follow Richdogs advice
 
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