Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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Nice one Richdog, heard anything since?

So a little update on the girl i went out with on Wednesday night, after totally failing at finding something to do on a freezing cold Wednesday night, she mentioned she used to go to some dancing thing on a wed, so somehow, we ended up at this place, a good 150 people there lol jumpingoutthewindow.gif.

Most of them knew what they were doing to so i had to pick it up as i went along, anyway the rules to this place is if someone asks you to dance, you have to dance with them. You cant refuse

So we're there and these dudes of various ages kept asking her to dance and i was like wtf, but then the girls would ask me aswell so it was all pretty weird but actually quite fun, anyway that finished at 11 so i took her home dropped her off, little kiss on the cheek and cya later.

When i got home she txt me saying she was impressed with my dancing lol and was surprised i was even up for going, oh and next time i get to choose the activity!

Now im like ok she must like me if she wants to go out again, but then whats she looking for, friend? boyfriend? i donno? all i know is i quite like her, shes got something about her
 
She to me, its a good sign!

Now i have to think of a badass activity to do next time, shame weve got no indoor sky diving places near us.
 
Reading is only up the road from me, when i was looking for things to do, i stumbled across some Amazon Rainforest they've got up by junction 13 of the M4. Never knew it was there but if its a weekend date, that would be pretty awesome, apparently the animals run wild in there

I cant remember what it was called, ill have a look for it on google.
 
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Reading is only up the road from me, when i was looking for things to do, i stumbled across some Amazon Rainforest they've got up by junction 13 of the M4. Never knew it was there but if its a weekend date, that would be pretty awesome, apparently the animals run wild in there

I cant remember what it was called, ill have a look for it on google.
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The Living Rainforest? Not that great apparently, especially not in this weather :p

Skyfall said:
I gave POF a go the past few weeks, messaged ten or so girls and did not get a single reply.

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Link us your profile?
 
yeah tbh i don't like a lot about your profile, it's as though you're a fun guy but it's stuff that's only fun for the people there and not a random stranger.

i'd remove all the silly photos and re-write the profile to 1st person. i've seen girls do it, it's ok and nothing that would put me off, but from experience us guys are walking on the edge of a knife, one tiny wrong thing and you've lost it.

maybe you're 5ft10 maybe you're 6ft in some shoes. i'd change that not like anyone will check.

your interests are run of the mill interests. going out, cinema, gym, easy going, laid back, fun. these are literally what every single boring girl puts and i assume the same for guys.

what do you do in a normal week? maybe try only list stuff that you've done in the last 2 weeks at most as an interest and see what you can come up with. do you really go to cinema often enough for it to be classed as your main interest? so many people put this and last time they went was 6 months ago. in the last week i've been 3 times, would have been 4 if someone didn't cancel.

imo laid back, easy going = meh doesn't do much as you're happy with whatever. although all girls say they're looking for laid back, i get the impression they wont someone who has passion and will actively do things they like.

what does hanging out even mean? having fun? well duh everyone likes that. imo you need to rewrite all your interests to interesting version of them, e.g. eating out Zzz try instead something like 'exploring new restaurants'. i assume hanging out means seeing your friends? if so what do you do with them?

atm the best 2 photos are your first and last (the 2 with the red tops). i'd remove the rest, and either try find a better one where you're smiling, chicks dig that, or just keep the 2 as it shows enough of you that you wont risk putting the girls off.
 
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Kimi said:
Reading is only up the road from me, when i was looking for things to do, i stumbled across some Amazon Rainforest they've got up by junction 13 of the M4. Never knew it was there but if its a weekend date, that would be pretty awesome, apparently the animals run wild in there

I cant remember what it was called, ill have a look for it on google.
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tbh i need it to be local so the girl doesn't see my car, at least not yet as it's a piece of ****. my car gives the impression of failure haha
 
I wouldnt worry about your car, one of mine makes me look like super chav and the other smells like dog.. ha i tend to take the chavmobile
 
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Thanks for the tips the hardest part for me is figuring out what to write...

The other problem is that I don't really do a lot at the moment, since I moved to Glasgow a while ago I haven't really got a big social life or many people to do stuff with, which is one of the reasons I gave this a go.

I go to the cinema on average once a week, would go more if there were more people to go with.

Maybe I'll remove the laid back.
 
i'm not too fussed but not just yet. it's a worse version of her car, and i'm 6 years older and self employed running a business, so it runs the risk of her thinking i have a turd car because i'm not very good at what i do. when i say i run my own business everyone assume i drive a merc of something as expensive.

skyfall: no worries. wait for others to give an opinion first as we'll all have different opinions on what will work. moving to glasgow recently is a good thing to put, as you can act like you're new and want to make new friends which is why you're on there, and need someone to show you how to have a good time. it's also then a great starting point for a girl to message you/you to message a girl, "hey i'm new to glasgow, just moved from xyz, you look cute and fun and could show me some great places to go. message back in interested" etc

keep cinema on then as once a week is fine, but i would make it so people know you haven't put it there because you're boring and can't think of things to put like girls do, but instead because you actually go often.

if you can't think of many activities you do do, what about what you want to do in the town? if you don't do them, act as though the reason is because you need someone to join you on the adventures, the only thinfg stopping you from being a great fun guy is not having the girl who is currently reading your profile and now decided to message you.

final bit of advice is check out the competition, what type of photos do people put, what do they put in their profile about me. don't feel like you need to copy but instead try to spot what comes up time and again and make sure it's not in your profile. remember girls will be seeing 100's of guys pictures on there, make sure they aren't already bored of yours 20 guys ago
 
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