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There's a term for girls like that, it starts with an s and ends with a g, they're awesome, where do I sign up
Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!
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There's a term for girls like that, it starts with an s and ends with a g, they're awesome, where do I sign up
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Forgot to post what happened a while ago, met someone off it after a while of chatting on the phone etc, turned out to be bizarre let's say. That was my first person I'd met "from the internet" and never again.
I went back to good old fashioned way (extended network + night out) and met someone miles better
I went back to good old fashioned way (extended network + night out) and met someone miles better
Havent quite given up...at the moment talking to a woman that i just messaged...seems to be on the same page as i am lol...just exchanged numbers so off to call her.
Also helps that shes into asian guys and shes 5'1, size 8 and blonde but with a brain on her shoulders...well i would hope so at her age...shes 44 and im 36 so a bit of an age gap but shes on my level.
Petite women rock \o/
Also helps that shes into asian guys and shes 5'1, size 8 and blonde but with a brain on her shoulders...well i would hope so at her age...shes 44 and im 36 so a bit of an age gap but shes on my level.
Petite women rock \o/
Am severely fed up with men now. the guy i met in the pub seemed really nice, then started being distant a few weeks back. i found out yesterday he had been seeing someone else but he met her before me and we hadnt agreed to exclusively get to know each other.
i was upset he went about things the wrong way and wasnt just honest with me but he apologised etc and we had a chat and he said he's guarded because he's scared of getting hurt etc.
he told me to go home think about whether i wanted to continue getting to know him. i decided i did so text him today, he's now replied saying he doesnt think hes ready to be with someone yet and that he's already hurt me and doesnt want to see that again and that its best we stay friends for now
question though - if he doesnt think he is ready why the hell is he on a dating site? (or he was when i met him!)
why cant a 99.9% of guys just be honest for a change, sort themselves out completely before getting to know someone. not lead them on, keep them hanging then change their mind!
i was upset he went about things the wrong way and wasnt just honest with me but he apologised etc and we had a chat and he said he's guarded because he's scared of getting hurt etc.
he told me to go home think about whether i wanted to continue getting to know him. i decided i did so text him today, he's now replied saying he doesnt think hes ready to be with someone yet and that he's already hurt me and doesnt want to see that again and that its best we stay friends for now
question though - if he doesnt think he is ready why the hell is he on a dating site? (or he was when i met him!)
why cant a 99.9% of guys just be honest for a change, sort themselves out completely before getting to know someone. not lead them on, keep them hanging then change their mind!
Standard man BS for situations just like this, don't listen to a word of it.
Your better off without him..think of it as a lucky escape tbh...
You're not psychic so don't worry about it, some men are just good at duping, it's really nothing you could have helped. Learn form it and move on, he's just another schmo in a long line of them.
i thought i had learnt from the last guy who did it to me. i even told this guy how i'd been messed about. he told me last night to have a think about stuff so i had a long chat with a male friend and my boss (also male) and they said just see how it goes etc. so i text him with my decision and then he decides actually no changed my mind
now i know why he's called Richard.. cos he's a d**k
edit: and i slept with him
it was about a month after we met and it felt right. and it was before he was distant. im such an idiot.
now i know why he's called Richard.. cos he's a d**k
edit: and i slept with him
it was about a month after we met and it felt right. and it was before he was distant. im such an idiot.
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Send me an email secretspy, i could be your knight in shinning armor
do it!!!!
i've tried internet dating, and met 2 girls from it, first one was really sweet, nice etc, but after 9 months i just felt there wasn't much there, so we called it off, second one was a bit mental, after a month and a half she saw a future for us and couldn't realise why that made me uneasy, and would go on a 20 minute sulk if i mentioned any acrtress i thought was hot. then each time i tried to break it off with her, we'd end up having sex and my weak willpower would be succumbed >.<
now however, i've been seeing a girl for 3 months who i met through friends, definitely the way to go, easier to actually get to know what they're like as opposed to an internet facade, but it's definitely worth giving a go cause plenty of people have it work out
now however, i've been seeing a girl for 3 months who i met through friends, definitely the way to go, easier to actually get to know what they're like as opposed to an internet facade, but it's definitely worth giving a go cause plenty of people have it work out
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