@LiE i think you're in a decent place to answer this as i vaguely recall we have similar financial setups with various "pots" for different spend.
I'm looking to bring everything together and try and give my wife more visibility of what we're spending. Am i right in thinking that with Starling/Monzo i can set up pots, like £400 for groceries. What then happens if we've spent that pot in a month and try and buy more, would it give a notification or just take the money from elsewhere?
At the moment, we have the issue where we have sufficient money to just buy (within reason) whatever we want and then at the end of the money look back in shock at how much has been spent. I did setup a Google Docs sheet where we were supposed to add spend onto it and have a weekly spend tracker, but the reality was neither of us updated it often!
At the moment i have an AMEX card for pretty much all spend and pay it off in full, our Santander current account for bills/non amex spend. Then we each have a "Spends" account which gets £200 a month for stuff for ourselves, which are currently old First Direct sole accounts. It'd be nice if we could have this all in a central place. I've already accepted i'd lose out on ~£60 a year on Santander cashback and have accepted it.