Haha i hear that with the Wife de-aggro, fortunately mine tends to be quite forgiving and also plays online games so i'm in luck that way... most of the time.
I'm also similar to you with not exploring the avenues outside of leveling too much until nearer endgame. Not because i don't enjoy them, simply because i love PvP and love having that initial edge alongside the people i play with and can test things that gives you more experience once you do reach the top.
I on the other hand do enjoy the levelling. I can't stand games that give you it on a platter, i much prefer to work for it. Like this game makes you.
I'm also similar to you with not exploring the avenues outside of leveling too much until nearer endgame. Not because i don't enjoy them, simply because i love PvP and love having that initial edge alongside the people i play with and can test things that gives you more experience once you do reach the top.
I on the other hand do enjoy the levelling. I can't stand games that give you it on a platter, i much prefer to work for it. Like this game makes you.