Sex After Marriage????

How can you commit to a girl if you have no idea how she is in the sack? what if you get married and all then you find out she is terrible?

I know it sounds shallow but sex is a pretty big thing for me
 
seek said:
I never suggested religion is the answer. That was something you concocted yourself just to put it down. :/

I was simply saying that the basic idea of "they're going to do it anyway so lets give them condoms" doesn't seem to work. Certainly not from a statistical point of view if nothing else.
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really? You have statistics from the parallel universe where they aren't given condoms? For all we know, without giving them SexEd 101, we'd be hip-deep in unwanted babies.

And I wouldn't necessarily agree that there is a huge problem with unplanned pregnancies. Is it any higher than it was fifty years ago? proportionately to the population? STDs are today relatively minor inconveniences apart from HIV but in the old days Syphilis was a killer too.
 
SuBsTaNcE said:
How can you commit to a girl if you have no idea how she is in the sack? what if you get married and all then you find out she is terrible?

I know it sounds shallow but sex is a pretty big thing for me
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Ok, so you're with a girl long-term, but not married. You're having sex with her, do you have a joint bank account too?
 
I just couldn't do the no sex before marraige thing, I'm a Christian, I do believe in God, and most of the Christian ways, but I don't see no sex before marraige, I've never really had a one night stand, I just think i'm in the "normal" middle now, plus, I'd get too horny and end up humping her leg whilst she slept! :D
 
Sex after marriage translates to "You can have this when I have half of everything".

:p

Seriously though, sex for serious relationships only - utmost respect. I don't like the whole open source fanny thing where anyone can climb in and have a good old debug of the system internals.

Sex only after marriage... I dunno. It can make or break a relationship, I don't know if I'd want to get married to someone I hadn't been intimate with.

I've been with my girlfriend for ~6 years, she's my first and only sexual partner, and I'm very happy with that :D But I wouldn't be so happy if I had to hold out until after marriage - especially as I don't plan to get married for a few more years yet.
 
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mrk1@1 said:
Surely as a Christian you need to believe in all the Christian ways:confused:
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You're misunderstanding - religion is a "pick and choose" thing UNLESS you happen to disagree with one of the things your religious friend agrees about. If you question them on the bits they don't agree with, then apparently they don't matter!

It's awesome....it's like opting in to junk mail but being able to filter out the junk you don't want before it comes to your door!

:D
 
I say do whatever you like. I know a girl who has a similar view, albeit not founded in religious belief.

It can work two ways - you either get respect for it in the way of having respect for your own body, or you get frowned upon for being inexperienced and not knowing what you're doing :p

If two people are of the same opinion then I suppose it would work ok.

EDIT: If it was me meeting a girl I liked, I'd feel a bit guilty seeing as I'm not exactly pure myself :p
 
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Beansprout said:
It's awesome....it's like opting in to junk mail but being able to filter out the junk you don't want before it comes to your door!

:D
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ROFL


I always thought the whole point of Christianity was that you need to believe it all. Its kind of an all or nothing thing here, not pick and choose. Ok people may not agree with some things or like others or even choose to uphold parts however ergo the base package is as it is.
 
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