Malteasers seriously the best post breakup food source.
Finally, I am useful for something!
After reading all the 6 pages, why not share my experience
I'm 17, soon to be 18, and was with a girl when I was 15. It was all right for like 6 months, and it became very frustrating, so we split up. She came back and I stupidly accepted her. 3 months later, and the same happened.
She went to 6th form (like 2 months after we started going out) and she met these friends who (I think) are good people, but they kind of cut themselves off. They were a group of 4, and 2 of them (gf + 1) did everything together. Heck, she even cut off from friends that she had been with for 10+ years. Not totally, but from talking on the phone various times a week, to seeing each other 1 a month.
Obviously, she zoned me out too. I used to hardly see her 1 a week. She just decided to fake she became a study freak (when really, she used to spend a lot of time watching series like Gossip Girl and One Tree Hill). During the week she had to study, on a Saturday she used to study + go to her friend's house, and Sunday, MAYBE, I used to see her 2 hours. MAYBE that is, If I was lucky.
And even then, her mind was on anything except me.
The break up was great though. She had a friend who I was close-ish too (one that had been friends with her for over 10 years) and this girl is a bit jealous of everyone. That night I had to go out with the gf, and was telling this girl (who is supposedly jealous) that I am expecting an excuse any time now. Didn't even finish the sentence, that I get a text with an excuse. We were going to watch a film, and magically, her friend (the one she is always with) was going to be at the same film! I mean, she obviously was going to stay with me yes
So I tell this girl (the jealous one) that I'm getting annoyed etc. and then i head home, messaging them both. I wanted to message this girl that I see that it has ended, but I find it hard to break up, but since I was messaging quickly, I sent it to my gf!!
Gf was ****ed because she had told me more than once that she thinks this girl is jealous (and I do think she is pretty
) and didn't want me to confide in her. She broke up with me (well really, I went ton facebook and she changed relationship status. WHAT A WAY TO BREAK UP!!!!) with pretty much no reason at all. I sent her a few messages saying she was treating me badly (come on, 2 hours per week max, when you live like 20 mins away, and you create excuses not to see/talk to me) and that her friend totally changed her. Some harsh words were said from my behalf in relation to her friend (who i didn't hate, but hated how the gf kinds idolised her and stuff) only to get to know that she is right near her, and reading all the messages I am sending
. Wow, you can keep stuff a bit secret eh!
Never spoke face to face since. She spoke to me on facebook a few times, mainly being the curious **** she is, asking if I passed my exams. On my birthday, she sent me a message AND a facebook wall post!
Around mid-January, I went to a concert with friends, and she was there. Now there was this corridor type thing, and I was at the end speaking to my friends, and she passed with her 'godly' friend. Her friend (who i wouldn't blame if she was offended by what i said) said a quick 'bye' and kept on walking, but she said nothing
Needless to say, we have never spoke since, not even through PC. Didn't bother sending her anything for birthday, not even facebook wall post. I did send one to her brother, and 2 friends (who have birthday in the same month
)
Now she went abroad with a few people. ironically, these people are people she used to tell me she didn't like
But they are her 'god's' friend so she just goes with it. Its actually funny when you know what she used to say
I was going to post on her album something along the lines of "Did you not tell me you absolutely hate these people? or are you that much of a suck up" but I felt its a bit too much
Still close with that jealous friend of hers. And yeah, she is still pretty. And no I am not going to 'smash her back doors in' at all thank you very much
Now, apparently, she got fatter than before.
This was like over a year ago now (that we broke up. She just came from the holiday now). I am not actively searching, as I am fine as I am, but I am sure that if I find somebody nice, I will try.
Sorry for the poorly written essay! I'm tired, but I wanted to contribute!
EDIT: WOOOOOOOOOOOAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH So long. Longer than I thought. I could elaborate much more, as I left a few points out. But you do get the general idea. It normally takes me liek 30 mins to expalin how it all went down, so writing it is a bit hard
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