The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread
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Of course I realise that, I've had a headache for two days solid and have been pretty much beside myself all ****ing weekend.
I don't know fully what went on when they met, I know the kids were there. Perhaps they'll drop a ******* about it sometime, other than that ill never know besides what she's already told me.
Sorry to take up all the real estate there. The floor is now yours.
Man points for getting past the friend zone.
Points well and truly deducted if you are already with someone!
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Best thing you could have done. Its clear that there wasn't any trust left there so in the long run you are better off. Think about everytime she goes out you would have done your head in thinking 'has she gone to she him' or who she with. Once 2nd choice always 2nd choice.
As long as you learnt from it, you're all the better and will find someone else. get out there again but be respectable, my last rebound was.. well.. less than decent..
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Back in here. Well tried being nice and talking to my ex to get some kind of closure. Got fed up with her attitude towards me and a lot of other things so told her to do one and that she wont be hearing from me again. Feel a lot lot better now 
5 year relationship, not been happy for quite some time.
Feel that I need my own life and would love to call it a day. Simply not possible though. We have a dog, cat and a house together. Sometimes feel trapped. But then other times feel this is what I want.
I don't know what replies I'm expecting, just felt like I needed to write this.
Feel that I need my own life and would love to call it a day. Simply not possible though. We have a dog, cat and a house together. Sometimes feel trapped. But then other times feel this is what I want.
I don't know what replies I'm expecting, just felt like I needed to write this.
Got in a rut? Change the routine! Do random things together!
I am not into all that vengeful ********, it just makes you look like a ****.
I've actually offered to extract some files she's lost on a failing HDD for her..
Who shouted MUG at the back!!
I am not into all that vengeful ********, it just makes you look like a ****.
I've actually offered to extract some files she's lost on a failing HDD for her..
Who shouted MUG at the back!!
Not me but I did shout "He's trying to smash the pasty one last time!"
Not a chance... Although she was rather good.. damn, the best actually.
haha.
You might think that now, but I can tell you, there are many talented women out there !
You might think that now, but I can tell you, there are many talented women out there !
I've gone through enough of them, I'm not some teenage whipper snapper here remember.
Trust me.. she was good.
that sucks, fuzz. i know i only met you briefly but you seemed sound enough, certainly not deserving of a kick in the teeth like that.
you need to stick to your guns now. the trust and faith has pretty much almost gone and it would never be the same again. so, when she starts texting again, be civil but stand your ground as it would only go full circle again.
heaven knows how her kids must feel too? she's not being fair to them.
you need to stick to your guns now. the trust and faith has pretty much almost gone and it would never be the same again. so, when she starts texting again, be civil but stand your ground as it would only go full circle again.
heaven knows how her kids must feel too? she's not being fair to them.
She changes her mind like the wind.
I'm not going back for more grief, I can't be dealing with it any more.
Strangely she was always protective of her kids (as you should be) not letting them see us "together" as it were to start with, first I just turned up on the bike to fix her car, go for a ride, then I'd turn up to go running with her, then she introduced them more, I'd stay for dinner and stuff, then stayed the night (downstairs
)All perfect, kids warmed to me very well, even managed to pull a splinter out of the foot of the eldest... Something she wouldn't even let daddy do!! Got proper hugs for that.
I went on a BBQ with them to the Forest of Dean, I drove (first time as a proper "family" unit) chasing them up the stream, hunting for fish, pushing them on the rope swing, cooking the grub, handing out the food, it was fantastic. (I've never had kids of my own)
Planned all week to go away overnight camping the next weekend, worked late Friday to make sure I had the weekend off which she was over the moon about (got home about 8pm)
11pm she's ringing me to tell me about her feelings for the EX.. I was like WTF WTF WTF what the ****ing ****
I'm not going back for more grief, I can't be dealing with it any more.
Strangely she was always protective of her kids (as you should be) not letting them see us "together" as it were to start with, first I just turned up on the bike to fix her car, go for a ride, then I'd turn up to go running with her, then she introduced them more, I'd stay for dinner and stuff, then stayed the night (downstairs
)All perfect, kids warmed to me very well, even managed to pull a splinter out of the foot of the eldest... Something she wouldn't even let daddy do!! Got proper hugs for that. I went on a BBQ with them to the Forest of Dean, I drove (first time as a proper "family" unit) chasing them up the stream, hunting for fish, pushing them on the rope swing, cooking the grub, handing out the food, it was fantastic. (I've never had kids of my own)
Planned all week to go away overnight camping the next weekend, worked late Friday to make sure I had the weekend off which she was over the moon about (got home about 8pm)
11pm she's ringing me to tell me about her feelings for the EX.. I was like WTF WTF WTF what the ****ing ****
I am not into all that vengeful ********, it just makes you look like a ****.
I've actually offered to extract some files she's lost on a failing HDD for her..
Who shouted MUG at the back!!
I'm not on about trying to make someone jealous, I'm just saying get back out there, enjoy yourself but if you go rebound on the drink, don't do what I did and just accept anything that comes your way
.I'm not on about trying to make someone jealous, I'm just saying get back out there, enjoy yourself but if you go rebound on the drink, don't do what I did and just accept anything that comes your way
Yea I misread it to start with, had already posted the reply before I noticed what you actually meant.
I don't do going out and getting wasted anyway (gave that up when I nearly didn't wake up one morning after back in my teens)
I've got someone in mind already anyway, not that I'll be chasing it up at all for a while yet as they know what the situ is, but we will meet regularly at an event I go to monthly anyway, so no bother.